EP100 A Love Letter To My Ladies

It’s no mystery…I love the ladies in my Fearlessly Fertile Community. In celebration of 100 episodes, let’s dive into exactly HOW women unleash fearlessness into their journey—and WHY it helps them beat the odds.

Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast episode 100, a love letter to my ladies. Hey loves. Can you believe it? Wow. That’s 100 weeks of me buzzing in your ear, urging you to reach farther, leap higher, dig deeper on this journey. Why? Because the desire in your heart to be a mom is fuckin meant for you.

That’s right, doll. It’s meant for you. When I was thinking about how I wanted to celebrate this milestone, one thing came through very clear. None of this is about celebrating me or the discipline and staying power it takes to put out quality, high vibe content week after week, rain or shine, whether I’m writing a book in the background or whether my schedule is packed.

With serving my clients all over the world, no excuses. The work I do and this podcast is for my ladies. This week’s episode is a love letter to them. It’s a celebration of them. Why? Because they inspire the hell out of me. You see, my work is an invitation. It is an invitation to get on a path to motherhood that isn’t bullied or confined.

By statistics, doesn’t judge, honors your uniqueness, and at its core stands for an unwavering belief in hell, yes. It is about a logical, linear, methodical, and deeply intuitive approach to using your brain to your advantage on this journey. Because when your mind and body are in sync, The craziest shit happens.

Think about the women you’ve heard on this podcast who have beaten single digit odds. My work is for women who are committed to their dream of being a mom. They’re more committed to that than their fear or bullshit excuses, which is why they cover their bases mind and body. So they sure as hell don’t look back on this journey knowing in their heart of hearts, they did not give it their all.

Because let’s be honest, we all know when we’re holding back, and regret is a bitch. We might be able to hide the truth from the people around us, but we can never hide it from ourselves for very long. So think about the kind of woman who accepts that invitation. The kind of woman who has the intestinal fortitude to say, Hey, I may have some very real challenges, but the thing that blocks me from this baby sure as hell ain’t gonna be me.

The kind of woman who has the common sense to understand that you can’t succeed by just hoping it works or expecting to fail. We’ve all met people who are so full of life, fun, hardworking, and an absolute joy to be around. You know those people who mean what they say, get scared and do shit anyway, are kind, generous, appreciative, would rather die than fuck you over, and keep their word?

Yeah, those are my ladies. Can you see why I leap out of bed every morning, excited AF, to be with them? You can’t tell me that when you listen to their interviews that you aren’t thinking to yourself, I fucking love her! I so want to be friends with her. These women are physicians, surgeons, lawyers, engineers, teachers, nurses, artists, business owners.

Leaders in technology, they’re at the top of their professional game, whose minds and hearts are open to being better. Not just to improve their chances of getting pregnant, or because they don’t think they’re enough, but to prepare for the most important job they will ever have, and that’s mom. They didn’t half ass in school, they don’t half ass at work, and there’s no fucking way they’re going halfway when it comes to one of the biggest challenges they face in their life.

For all of their credentials, These women have the humility, wisdom, and sense of humor to say, Hey, look, my way isn’t working. I want to learn more. For many of these women, our work together represents the first time in a long time they’ve actually given to themselves. They give so much to other people in and outside of their work that they realize, Hey, if mom is going to conceive, she’s got to receive.

These women make an investment of time, money, resources, and faith in pursuit of what’s in their heart. This work is education, but not in a conventional sense. It’s the kind of education that pushes them beyond rote memorization of concepts and skills. It’s about learning to think in an entirely different way, which frees them from the foolhardy matrix that hypnotizes women into thinking that they’re just a number, statistic, or probability.

Because my ladies learn to think beyond the odds, they beat them. These women double down on themselves and win in more ways than one. When I invite a woman to do this work and she invites me into her journey, it begins with the answer to a very simple question. Hell yes, or hell no. But the answer to this question really isn’t about me or my programs.

It’s about a woman taking a stand for her heart’s desire and creating a mindset to support her in achieving it. No matter what the cacophony of haters or sheep may say. As you may have heard me say in the past, my ladies become the woman who succeeded before they hold their baby in their arm. I like to think of it this way.

My ladies become moms. It is a gorgeous process to observe. And I am so fucking proud of them, not just because they hold babies, but because of the women they become. I will close out my celebration of these women, which, you know, I could go on for days about, but I won’t, by assuring you that there is not a single one of them who would say she was any better than anyone else, or somehow special.

She simply made a decision. She picked a lane, she took a stand, and refused to look back. Through the celebration of them, those that have had their babies and those that are in the process, I hope you too will find something stirring within you to take a leap and say hell yes to what’s in your heart. So here’s an exercise to take all of this goodness to the next level.

Write a love letter to your desire to be a mom. Step one, get out a piece of paper or open a fresh page in your journal. And while it may have been some time since you’ve written a love letter, Write one now. Not to a person, but to the desire in your heart to be a mom. You know, that pull inside of you, the longing, the knowing.

Tell that part of you what she needs to know. Will you revere her? Will you commit to her? Will you stand up for her? Will you keep choosing her? Will you do what you need to do to bring her vision to fruition? Will you be worthy of her trust? Write this letter without judgment. Welcome whatever emotion comes up as a wise messenger.

Step 2. Put this letter in a place that you can access it easily. Read this First thing in the morning every day for the next seven days make that commitment and notice what’s different Third if you love this podcast and the free content I provide every week rain or shine one of the best ways to show your Appreciation is to take a moment right now while you’re listening and give this podcast a five star review Not only does it make us smile it helps other women find us So take a moment to do it now or even tag somebody that you know could benefit from this.

Love, decide that you will fall in love with your desire. Like there’s a part of me that like, that’s kind of why my voice sounds this way right now. Like it is sincere reverence that I feel and, and so much. Honor and and delight and just a sense of peace that washes over me when I think about these women and What they are able to create in what seems like a blink of an eye decide that you will be inspired Buy this love letter to my ladies so that you too can find some of those characteristics within yourself.

They’re there. And decide, you will be one of them. My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say, Hell yes! To covering their bases, mind and body. So you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret. I work with women, as you can tell, who are committed to success.

To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodologies help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy.

Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.