EP111 Keep Your Word To This Child

A consistent trait I observe in women who beat the odds on their fertility journey—regardless of age or diagnosis, is they keep their word. This week I am teaching you a bold move that runs counter to the keep-you-small-don’t get-ahead-of-yourself nonsense that people who don’t know anything about this journey love to sling. Buckle up!

Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Episode 111. Keep your word to this child. I butterflies. What about butterflies? I caterpillars. We’re going to go under chrysalis and turn into butterflies. What do butterflies do, baby? Um, they go on flowers.

Do you love butterflies? Yes. Tell the ladies what you learned at school today. I learned about toys. Toys? I don’t think so. What did you really learn? I learned about ladybugs. Ladybugs? What color are ladybugs? Um, black and red. Black and red and orange. And orange? And black. Okay. Okay. Loves, that boy always seems to have a sixth sense as to when I am recording this podcast.

So ah, well, this week I want to take you in a direction that can be both exciting and nerve wracking. Well, I think I might do that almost every week, but I think this will be a little different. And it’s so apropos for this being episode 111. Seeing numbers like 111, 1111, or any repetition of ones, for those of us who have a little bit of interest in the woo, know that, well, that might be a little bit of a blessing.

That might be the universe winking at you whenever you see those numbers. So, it makes sense, because I want to engage your intuition, your faith, And your imagination this week. Intuition, faith, and imagination are all deeply feminine things that I’m going to wrap in my alpha female delivery because I love ya.

And frankly, anything else just wouldn’t cut it. So let’s get started. We spend a great deal of time on this journey future tripping and agonizing over the past. We see our children as some misty, far off destination that we will get to in the future. But the reality is we’re They are here and they are now for those of us who are lovably type a, this may be a hard concept to wrap our heads around because we may not be physically holding this child in our arms right now.

We may have had brushes with them in the past, but we don’t see them as here and now. In many ways we are afraid to see them as here and now because in many cultures and languages we hear bullshit like, Don’t get ahead of yourself. Don’t count your chickens before they hatch. Or we are told not to be overconfident.

When you break those statements down and the idea behind them, it’s all about lack and scarcity. Not only that, there’s an absolute dearth of faith. Zero. Zilch. Nada. This is one of the primary reasons we become obsessed with statistics and science. To quell our need for certainty, we run to something that is quote unquote solid and concrete.

As if that is any sort of guarantee of anything. I just love how people wrap themselves in the pontifical robes of science. Oh, it’s the science who needs faith. When there is science as if our human science has all the answers. The truth is, our science is like caveman shit compared to the things that go on in the natural world all around us that we can’t fucking explain or replicate.

There is so much about our existence and how our bodies can heal seemingly miraculously that we just don’t understand. Our science. Is a blessing for sure, but it’s only part of the picture. We as women on this journey, if we truly intend to be successful, must have the humility and open heart to acknowledge that science and faith are not mutually exclusive.

In fact, I come from the perspective that they kind of help each other out. Two things can be true at the same time. My loves, as our science stands now, they can bring an egg and sperm together. But they can’t guarantee it will yield a living, breathing baby in our arms. Our science alone can’t do that.

There is an unseen X factor that goes to work on those cells, makes them multiply properly, creates that burst of light. You see on an ultrasound of your baby’s heart beating. gives your child their unique characteristics, voice, personality, and soul. There is something so profound that is going on in the background of all of this that we must acknowledge.

Science, faith, belief, imagination, intuition, all of these things get to play together. What happens when you bring all of these cooperative forces together, Is truly extraordinary. You have heard so many of my go getter, make it happen ladies on this podcast talk about feeling this desire in their heart to be a mom.

Feeling, having a knowing in their heart about their baby. Some even knowing their child’s gender or name. Like I did with my boy Asher. Like Robin from a few weeks ago. She felt her daughter Ruby. And so many others. These women are physicians, nurses, engineers, teachers, all professionals. Who, for the most part, aren’t all woo woo and shit.

We aren’t out hugging trees or levitating around our houses. Not like there’s anything wrong with that. But you know what I mean. What makes the difference is we allow ourselves to feel there is nothing like a mother’s connection to her child, nothing. You will never have a closer connection to another human being in your life than you will have with your child or that you had with your own mother, regardless of what that relationship is today.

It is a special bond, a special spiritual and divine connection. I believe this is true whether you carry your child or not. I invite you, my love, to feel that now. Your child isn’t just some far off idea. This child is in your heart now. The energy of this child is here now. You can feel it. Your child is real now, regardless of the present form they are in.

They deserve to be acknowledged. Your desire deserves to be acknowledged. There is nothing you want more than to be with this child. So let’s do that now. In one of the most profound ways I know how, make them a promise. Then, be a woman of your word and keep that promise. this love, this feeling in your heart.

Remember what we talked about last week, evidence. This, what you feel is evidence of the presence of your child. What you feel is real. As a mom, you know, this is real. You don’t need anyone else. To validate that this is shit. You know, you don’t need to kiss someone in a white lab coats ring or get anyone else’s permission for this to be true.

You know, like, you know, like, you know, this is about you and your baby. This is between you and your baby promise here and now that you will go to the ends of the earth for them promise your child. That your door is always open. Promise them that you will choose them over your fear. Promise them that you will not let anyone or anything stand in your way.

Promise that you will not judge the way in which they decide to show up in your life. Promise that you will not leave without them. Promise that you will trust them. Promise that they can trust you. Women who win on this journey, keep their word. Here is an exercise to take the idea I have shared with you to the next level.

Make a promise to this child. Step one. What is the promise You make to this child you long for. I know that for some of you, even thinking in these terms will make you nervous. But seriously, if you aren’t willing to make a bold commitment to the child you long for, what the fuck are you doing? It sounds harsh, but someone needs to say it to snap you out of your rut.

If you are struggling on this journey, you can’t afford to play chicken. With your belief, pick a fucking side, take a stand. Now is not the time for limp, milquetoast bullshit. Most of the reason why we spin is because we don’t make a decision. Make a decision. Make a promise to this child that you are not leaving without them.

Let this child know you aren’t some weakling. Stand up. Let them know you are a woman of your word and they can trust you. Let them know that you are the mom they deserve. And you’re not going to give up on them, and you damn sure are not going to give up on yourself. Step 2. For the next 14 days, the first thing I invite you to do when you get out of bed is thank Gus, God Universe Source, for waking you up and renew your promise to your child.

Do that every day for the next 14 days. You can’t tell me that after 14 days of doing this with your whole heart, getting emotionally involved in what you’re saying and building this trust in yourself and building this communication with this child, that you won’t be different. Be a woman of your word, not a poser.

Step three. If you love this podcast and the free content my team and I bring to you every week, take a moment right now. Give us five star review. Not only does it show your appreciation, it helps other women find this work. Love. Integrity is everything on this journey. Integrity to your vision for motherhood, integrity with your intuition, and ultimately the integrity you show by keeping your word to this child.

It all begins with you deciding to be a woman who will live her journey fearlessly. My fearlessly fertile method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say hell yes to covering their bases, mind and body. I work with women who are committed to success. And keep their word to apply for your interview for this program.

Go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodology has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy. Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success till next time.

Change your mindset. Change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.