EP117 The Power of ALL IN

Women who beat the odds on their fertility journey are ALL IN. Being ALL IN gives you an unquestionable edge. Learn what being ALL IN means…for real, and why it will secure your success…so you don’t have to look back on this challenge in your life with soul-searing regret. Ouch! Want to apply for my Quantum Leap Retreat? Click this link: https://fy227.infusionsoft.com/app/form/ff-sun-valley-retreat-aug2021-application

Hey, Gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, episode 117, The Power of All In. Hey ladies, coming to have some time in Idaho, it’s Asher. Ladies, ladies, ladies, I am so fucking excited to be here with you this week. I’ve got one hell of a doozy for you.

And before we get to that, Since we had that wonderful introduction from my charming assistant, Asher, and since we’re going to be talking about All In, I want to share my personal invitation to you to be part of my Quantum Leap retreat in gorgeous Sun Valley, Idaho, August 1st through 4th, 2021 at the legendary Sun Valley Lodge.

This shit gon be amazing. Just go to my reels. If you follow me on Instagram, go to my reels. And you will see the one that I did from my scouting trip to the lodge at Sun Valley. Not only is this setting magical, there is an incredibly high vibrational energy in Sun Valley. So many people talk about that and it’s, it’s truly extraordinary.

I felt it myself. And the spot! Heavens to Betsy, this shit is gonna be off the chain. This retreat, if you’re wondering, is going to be about helping you have your quantum leap on this journey. This is about helping you crush the blocks between you and your baby at a level that comes from next level experiences.

Like leaving your house, getting in a car, or on a plane. And leaving your known environment literally to go get yours. Sometimes it takes that kind of a shake up to have your breakthrough show out in your life. There is something truly magical about getting your ass in the room with other high vibe women in a gorgeous space.

And lapping up the wisdom and encouragement and face to face kick assery of your mentor. This is what supports you to have massive quantum leaps quickly. When I incorporated this kind of work into my own life, I started being, doing, and having things that I only dreamed of. That’s possible for you too, love.

So if you’d love to not only learn crazy good shit that can change the trajectory of your journey, but finally give to yourself at a level that says, well, I am all fucking in, then get your application for my quantum leap retreat in. You are going to rewire your beliefs, level up your relationships, and start truly leading on your journey rather than scrounging for scraps.

This is about living hell yes, hell yes, and hell yes. Three days in Sun Valley, Idaho can be the fuck yeah experience that changes everything. So get your application in, loves! And, check this out, if you are in need of a romantic getaway while learning a shit ton and feeling more amazing than you have in years, the Lodge at Sun Valley is a perfect spot.

Who knows, you might make a baby while you’re away. Just keep that in mind. Now, let’s talk about the power of all in. Just think about those words. Notice what kind of response they elicit in your mind and body. People talk a whole lot of shit and have a whole lot of bravado about being all in. But in reality, they’re all in when examined more closely is actually conditional.

They’re all in if getting what they want is comfortable comes quick, doesn’t cost you much, whatever the fuck that means. isn’t too scary, is covered by insurance, doesn’t ruffle any feathers, doesn’t require them to cultivate new beliefs, doesn’t expose them to the risk of quote unquote failing too much, Again, whatever the fuck that means, is understood by their friends and family, is delivered in the exact neat and tidy way they expected it to, doesn’t cause them to stretch to the outer limits of their tensile strength.

And just as a side note, I’ve taken up a little bit of rock climbing, so I had to throw that reference in. is comfortably wedged within the realm of their own excuses, doesn’t expose them to the slightest bit of ridicule, doesn’t require them to go out on a limb with their partner, and doesn’t require them to cultivate a deep and abiding faith to the point that they will keep going in the face of being the last mofo on the dance floor when the DJ has turned up the lights and started playing the slow jams.

You feel me on that one? Where do you fall on the spectrum of all in doll? Are you all in on this journey? Really think about that. As with anything, all in for one person is going to look different for another. But in the end, the sentiment is the same. All in is about refusing to back down to people, circumstances, and fear.

It’s about holding on for those extra few seconds that change everything. It’s about taking that next step, even when you are scared shitless. It’s about burning the bridges back to mediocrity, regret, and playing small in your life. Cause you ain’t going back. In case you’re wondering, this isn’t motivational brew, ha ha, because the context isn’t a project at work.

It isn’t another degree and it isn’t starting a business or joining some fucking pyramid scheme. It’s becoming. A mom take the profundity of that statement in. This isn’t another work project. This isn’t another patient. This isn’t another management role. This isn’t another case that could lead you to making partner.

This, this is about a calling so deep in your soul that you know, if you give up on this shit, no matter how slick your rationalization may be, It will burn for the rest of your fucking life. And what do we know about rationalize or rationalizing things? When we rationalize, we ration lies, and more often than not, we are the recipient of those lies.

Just dropping another truth bomb. Are you all in? When you think about all of the women who have appeared and will be appearing on this podcast, I can tell you sure as shit. That every last one of them was all fucking in. Yes. They will also tell you they were scared shitless, but they leaped and burned the ships behind them.

And. They are finally in healthy pregnancies or holding their babies today because of it. I’m bringing this to your attention because when it comes to your dream of being a mom, isn’t that worth putting everything on the line for? Isn’t that worth doing the work for? Isn’t that worth making the investment in?

Isn’t that worth going ovaries to the wall for when you’re all in, you are literally securing your success without condition. Listen to the words coming from my mouth. When you are all in, you are securing your success without condition. Because much like how your excuses will show you how you will self sabotage, your conditions will show you why you will quit.

When you’re all in, you find a fucking way. Because there’s no going back. You’re all in. Can you see the power of being all in? So here’s an exercise to take this rant. To the next level. Are you really all in? Step one. Ooh, girl. Step one is you taking an honest inventory of how shit is going on your journey and asking, Am I being, doing, having, and acting like I am actually all in on this journey?

Be honest. If being all in is conditional, you ain’t all in. All in means All in. You know when you’re playing footsie with your dreams. You totally fucking know it. Just like when you know you’re fudging the truth. It feels gross. Yeah, you can let it slide, but in the end, you know the truth. And you are the one that has to live with the corresponding regret and feeling kind of gross.

Step two, what would you be doing differently today if you were all in? What do you think your results could be if you were all? Just think about the way you would make decisions if you were all in. Would you be afraid to try shit? No, because you’re all fucking in. Would you play small? No, because you’re all fucking in.

Would you make excuses? No, because you’re all fucking in. Would you tell yourself, Oh, that’s for other people. Oh, that’s too expensive. Or, Oh, I can’t afford that. No, because you’re all fucking in and you’re going to figure it out. You’re going to find a way. Because you are all in and think about this. Can you even imagine what the communication with your partner would be like if you were all in like you wouldn’t be hiding out like freaking Batman trying to hide how badly you want this baby or or settling for second best or settling for not being heard or any of this other shit that we find ourselves doing.

When we’re conditional in what we want on this journey, you got to be all in you’ve got to be all in and when you show up differently, which is inherent in being all in, because like you got to know, like you’ve met people that are all fucking in, right? We all know that that one friend of ours that can’t make a fucking decision.

Is always late, waits till the last minute to tell us if they’re coming over or wanting to go to dinner or all this other shit. Like, you cannot count on them. But then, you have friends that are all fucking in, you know, like, they’re game, they’re going for it. Like, people like that, their energy is fucking magnetic.

And you know how different you feel when you’re really going for it. You cannot tell me that that isn’t like a freaking laser beam straight to your baby. Baby. I’m not fucking around here. I’m in this. I am waiting. You know, your dad and I we’re, we’re ready, or your mom and I we’re ready. We’re going for it.

We’re in this, we’re totally here for you. We’re, we’re not going anywhere. The door is always open because we are all fucking in. You can’t tell me that. That wouldn’t take your journey from like a fucking three to a straight up 10 plus. Just think about that. Just think about that. And I’m telling you, I know I’ve mentioned this before on the podcast, but I’m telling you now because you learn from story and you learn by reinforcement and repetition.

It doesn’t surprise me that Asher came to me. When he did, my husband and I were all fucking in the wreckage that had become our lives on this journey, all of the failures, all of the heartbreak, all of the disappointment, the hundreds of thousands of dollars that we had invested and and had quote unquote nothing to show for it.

That’s a hardcore lack and scarcity way of looking at it. But I’m just using that as an example here. We had every reason to bounce. We had every reason to give up. But when we made the decision that we were all fucking in, regardless of the fact that we had nothing but a, a just miserable history, like near constant failure, all kinds of that crazy shit.

We doubled down. And you hear me say that, but I’m telling you, it’s real. And you know how differently you show up to your life when you are all in, doubling down, burning the ships, no turning back, burning the bridges, you know, saying, oh, I don’t want to burn that bridge, that’s just chicken shit. That’s just chicken shit, because chances are that is a bridge you will not want to cross again.

So keep this in mind. This is, you know, your results can be wildly different when you show up wildly different in the best possible way. This is the law of cause and effect. Thoughts, beliefs, actions, results. Think about where you could be by the end of the year, my darling, if you were all fucking in.

Think about the choices you would make. Think about the opportunities you would be open to. Think about what you could be doing differently. Think about the way you could be living. Way, way more attractive to calling in a baby than living in fear, doubt, negativity, and fucking misery. We’re almost halfway through the year, doll.

The choice is yours. And step three, if you love this podcast and the free fucking kick ass content that my team and I bring to you every week, take a moment right now and give us a five star review. Not only does this show your appreciation, it helps other women find this work. Luff, there is clearly power to being all in.

It can be a scary proposition, but isn’t regret way fucking scarier? Can you imagine being on your deathbed, looking back on your life, wishing you had been all fucking in? Don’t let your fear turn you into a bitter, regretful old lady. Let’s show that shit who’s boss the decisions you make today will have a ripple effect on the results You create this year truth bomb baby truth bomb it all starts with making the decision To live your journey fearlessly.

My fearlessly fertile method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say, hell yes, to covering their bases, mind and body. I work with women who are committed to success. They’re all in baby to apply for your interview for this program. Go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview. There. My methodology has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results. Speak for themselves. Every woman you’ve heard since the inception of this podcast had the guts to be all in. She loved her vision for motherhood enough to accept nothing less.

If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy. Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success till next time. Change your mindset. Change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review.

Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.