EP126 Is The BIG LIE Blocking Your Baby?

We walk around through our daily lives thinking that the way things are, is the way it “has to be.” The same is true for the internal rules we live by—especially on this journey. The truth is, most of that sh*t is completely made up and given to us by people who had no idea they were making it up. I’m teaching you how to identify the BIG LIE and how to start doing something about it.

Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast. Episode 126 is The Big Lie Blocking Your Baby. Loves, I am coming to you super quick this week because I was inspired while walking on the beach in Miami, and I said to myself, I am asking myself this question, and I’ve got to ask this question and pose it to my ladies.

Because, look, we are walking around It, and I know it’s going to sound crazy, but you’re just going to have to run with me on this. So many of us are living by lies in our daily life. Somebody at some time told us that this is the way shit’s done, and this is the way it’s got to be, and we just sort of accept it.

You know, we can go decades in this life without ever stopping to question the way we think and the way that we do things. And I know you might be thinking, Roseanne, you’ve been out and getting way too much sunshine, way too much vitamin D, that salt air is finally collected between your ears, and you’ve gone crazy.

But, you know, I mean, you could think that if you want. Or, you could take the wisdom of somebody who’s probably about 20 paces ahead of you, and take the time and say, why is this woman asking me this question right now? Could there be something in it for me? And so that’s what I’m hoping that you’re going to do, because there is something truly special that happens And freedom, baby, freedom that is available to us when we can stop and ask simple questions like why do I think this way?

Why do I think it has to be done this way? Could another way be just as equally valid? You know, a lot of times we just get pissed in our lives. We get pissed at people, we get pissed at systems, we get pissed at the general world around us. It’s just because. Things aren’t the way that we think they should be.

And I know that as women on this journey, we get really caught up in, Oh my gosh, I’m not as far along as I should be. Other people are having their babies. I’m being left behind. Uh, you know, that thing is too expensive for me. I’m never going to be a mom. So, It all comes down to this, and this is a very simple question, and the only assignment that you have this week is to sit and ask yourself this question thoughtfully and thoroughly, okay?

Don’t just, you know, think about this question in passing. You spending, I don’t know, five minutes thinking about this question could be a critical turning point on your journey. Because look, I mean, I did it myself. We spend years on this journey, kinda sleepwalking, and just sort of accepting things. And if you think about the interviews that you have heard from the women in my Fearlessly Fertile community over the past couple weeks, There was Kate, there was Dr.

Caroline, and, and so many that came before them. A unifying theme. With all of these women is they dared to confront the big lie in their lives. They were willing to look at the way they were living and challenging the big lie. Okay, so what is the big lie? You know exactly what the big lie you are telling in your life is.

It’s the thing that keeps you small. It’s the belief that shuts you up. It’s this saboteur that keeps you from asking for what you want, taking a stand for your opinion, and it actually keeps you out of your hell fucking yes. So, here is the assignment. What is the big lie you are living by and identify it?

What is the big lie that I am living by or said another way? What is the big lie under whose tyranny I am living because that’s what these lies are these saboteurs in our brains are literally tyrannical Their tyranny keeps us from speaking out, speaking up, and taking a stand for what we want on this journey, okay?

And it’s, it’s, it’s really critical that you identify what this lie is, because you will see its greasy fingerprints all over your life. So what’s the big lie? That you are living under right now because chances are the big lie that you are living under right now will block your baby. If you’ve got bullshit going on about age, it will block it.

It’ll block your baby because you’re gonna, you’re gonna give up and you’re gonna say, hey, I’m too damn old. I waited too long. I’ve tried too many times. It should have happened by now. And if you aren’t careful, it will steal your dream just like that. Just like that. So, simple but profound. Okay, that’s why I’m asking you to do, and you can thank Miami for that, and so what is the big lie you are living under this week?

You know, and I’m not kidding. If you spend five minutes seated with a piece of paper, a pencil, and just start writing what is the big lie, you may have the keys to your freedom on that page by the end of that five minutes. If you do it wholeheartedly. You are at least going to have a glimpse of truth instead of living every single day on this journey by a lie.

And yes, you can thank me later. You can thank me by showing me a baby picture or sending me or my team a picture of your pee stick. It is that profound. So get to work, my loves. What is the big lie you are living by? And look, here’s the deal. If you know what your big lie is and you actually want to fucking do something about it, my Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say hell yes to covering their bases, mind, and body.

I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this program, go to www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodology is help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy.

Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success till next time. Change your mindset. Change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.