EP129 Truth: The Fertility Fear Slayer

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Want to get really good at yanking yourself out of fertility fear? Getting there involves taking a look in places most people run from. I’m going to teach you why TRUTH matters so much when slaying fear and give you a powerful exercise for replacing fearful fiction, with the TRUTH that will set you free. Time to […]

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Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Episode 129, Truth. The fertility fear slayer. Hey, loves. Oh, M G. I have so much good energy for you today. I am basking in the glow of seven pregnancies in my fearlessly fertile method community in the month of July.

I just had an amazing group of women come all the way to Sun Valley, Idaho to be with me for my quantum leap retreat. And hot damn, the podcasts have been on fire. So much information that is absolute gold. Whether it was my statistics beating ladies, or the tip of the spear experts you’re hearing from.

And it’s on this wave of hell yes, that I’m coming to you today. It’s on this wave of amazing shit, that I want to chat with you about truth. The kind of truth, That slays fertility fear. Before we get to the meat of what I’m going to share, let me say this. If you love this podcast, if this podcast and the material I have shared here has dragged your ass out of the shit pit on more than one occasion, even if it was just one occasion, Take a moment, right now, and I mean now, to give it a 5 star review.

You can show your appreciation by showing some fucking love. I have gotten DMs from women all over the world telling me how listening to this podcast changed the course of their fertility journey. 5 star reviews help other women find this work. And that is the real fucking deal. It’s the real fucking deal, baby.

Nothing artificial and definitely nothing imitation. A few weeks ago, I did an episode that I titled The Big Lie. It’s episode 126. I strongly encourage you to listen to that in conjunction with what I’m going to share with you today. There is real freedom and power in truth. Real truth? It isn’t complicated.

It just fucking is. Simple. I know this may, that it, you know, it may not seem that way, but having done the work myself, you’re just going to have to trust me on this. Today we are going to do some super brave work. It’s fairly straightforward to call out our stories because we know them fairly well and more often than not when you are doing this work DIY, that means do it yourself without mentorship.

You will easily identify the low hanging fruit. These are the stories that are quote unquote acceptable to you, the ones that are actually okay with being identified. And, the low down dirty truth is, you are pretty fucking used to them. So, they are strangely comfy, and you can talk about them with relative ease, even though you know they are lame.

Our work today is way different. Instead of looking at the stories per se, we are going to look at the truth about you. And the way you operate on this journey. Specifically, truth that may be a little ugly. So much of the fear that we have pent up on this journey lurks in the areas that we just can’t get ourselves to look.

Especially, When we are trying to do this mindset shit DIY, this is exactly why you can only get so far DIY. This is why people who become truly masterful at being themselves don’t fuck around with DIY. It’s a good place to start, but long term. It will threaten to keep you in the minor leagues, broke, or making just good money, not great money.

It’ll keep you disappointed and wondering why you can’t get ahead. I don’t know a single person who truly beat the odds in this life that didn’t have a mentor, that didn’t have some outside influence in their life, Guiding, supporting, and helping them overcome. So, how’s that for exposing the egotistical truth of DIY?

Frankly, getting a mentor is a key indicator of how serious you are when it comes to accomplishing a goal. Can you imagine an Olympian trying to get to the Olympics without a coach or mentor? Nah, that’s amateur shit. And I’m pointing this out to you because this topic that we’re going to be getting into can be super, I don’t know, it can be a place where you can pump the brakes and just stop.

You can, you can say to yourself, Oh, this is just too tough. I can’t really go there, but I’m encouraging you to do better than that because often the obstacle is the way. The thing that you resist looking at is the very shit you need to take care of. Before you get to the other side of this journey, that mental block that is blocking you, your baby, and if you are repeating patterns and you can’t seem to get out from underneath it, we need to talk sister.

So keep that in mind. You’ve got to be willing to ask hard questions about you and exposing the truth about you to you. Is exactly how you get into the realm of fertility fear slaying. I’m going to read you a quote that exemplifies exactly this idea and how this idea works. And here it is. The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth he can accept about himself.

Without running away. Let me say that again. The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth he can accept about himself without running away. That’s the great Leland Val Vandewall. Now, unless your ass is under direct attack by a saber toothed tiger or you are swimming with sharks, fear is an illusion.

It’s not truth. It’s NOT truth. I don’t care how much it feels like it. It’s not truth. Just think about how much made up shit you fret about in a day. 95 percent of what the untrained mind freaks out about will never come to pass. Never. This is why truth is so powerful. Truth slays fertility fear because when you stand in truth, Particularly whole truth, which you’ve heard me talk about before.

You can get the fuck out of the worst case scenario fantasies you engage in all day. It’s gross and completely repelling to the life you’re trying to call in, sister. Getting out of fear requires growth. Through the work that you do on your mind, you grow beyond your fear. Growth plus truth equals fear slaying mama.

If you are willing to grow, you open your eyes to truth. And that empowers you to slay your fear. Is this making sense? This is why if you never allow yourself to get uncomfortable, push past the confines of what you know, most of which is rooted in half truths and stories from the past, you won’t grow, see truth.

and therefore get the fuck out of fear. This is logical and linear, but most of us get so sold on the stories we tell ourselves that we virtually damn ourselves to mediocrity, rather than searching for the gold ring of truth that is well within our reach. So, the question I have for you is how much truth are you willing to accept about you?

Without running away. Are you willing to see how you fuck yourself over on this journey? Are you willing to see how you allow others to fuck you over on this journey? Are you willing to see how you are playing small? Are you willing to see how you might be playing the blame game rather than taking personal responsibility for where you are today?

Are you willing to see how short sighted and cheap your lack and scarcity fake news has made you? Are you willing to see that you’re running yourself ragged, refusing to get the support you desire? Are you willing to see that your thoughts, beliefs, and actions are directly impacting your results? You’d be surprised, as a side note, how many people can’t, can’t make that connection.

Oh, it’s my thoughts and beliefs and therefore my actions that are creating my results. You gotta, you gotta complete that circuit. They’re all related babies, so you gotta ask, are you willing to see how those things are working in your life? Are you willing to look at how you might be blocking your baby?

I’m asking really tough questions here in a pointed way, cause I’ve been to that shit show, and for a time in my life, I was a star of that mess. If you are committed to success, You have to be willing to see your blind spots and do something about them so you don’t keep allowing them to pull the rug out from underneath you.

You want different results, right? That means you have to be different. You have to show up better. And isn’t your baby worth it? Now, watch really carefully, because your saboteurs right now could be like, Oh my gosh, Roseanne’s being so hard on me right now. How the fuck could she even ask me such questions?

Doesn’t she know I’m suffering? Well, it is suffering that we find ourselves in when we are not in truth. When we are in the fantasy that this baby’s never gonna happen, and my life sucks, and, you know, nothing ever works out for me, and all of that bullshit that your saboteurs love to spew, you’re not actually in truth.

So, asking hard questions can sometimes feel a little in your face, but you know what? This old prosecutor is doing it because she loves you, and she wants you to get different results. So, I’ll stop talking about myself in the third person, but you get what I’m saying. The good news is that on the other side of the darkness that you might be seeing, there is unquestionably light.

Some of the brightest, most loving light you could ever bask in, mama. That’s where your baby is. That’s where you belong. And I want to say this again. Note that none of this is hopium. It’s actually the polar opposite of denial. It’s looking your bullshit square in the eye and calling that hooker out. In truth, there is freedom.

In freedom, there is forgiveness. And in forgiveness, you can be fearless. So here’s an exercise to take what I’ve shared in this screed to the next level. Step one. Ask yourself, how much truth am I willing to see about me? Consider the questions I posed earlier. What truth are you not calling out in yourself?

If you are at all confused about the truth in your life, Look at the landscape in your life. Are you getting the results you want? Where are you at on this journey? Are you settling for second best? Are you not coming clean with your partner about what you really want? Are you being a fucking scrooge with your money and not getting the treatment and help you know would make a difference?

Are you stopping yourself from treatment you want to explore because some made up bullshit excuse your partner is feeding you? Go fucking scorched earth with this question. And look, if you didn’t catch it earlier, this isn’t about blame. Remember that. It’s about you seeing the truth about how you operate.

I say that with love. One of the biggest ways I see women fuck themselves over and waste precious time on this journey is by allowing their partner’s stories and manipulation to get in the way of what they want. It’s 20 fucking 21, but I see women every day acting like it’s 1950. And that’s not necessarily because their partner is doing that to them.

It’s because they’re not standing up in their power, the power we have earned since 1950 as women, and frankly, way before that. You can lead in your feminine power without emasculating your partner. But that’s a topic for another episode. Grow up. Stand up. Screed on that topic over. Step 2. Are you willing to face this truth without running away?

As Leland Val Vandewall said, most importantly, what are you going to do with this truth because knowledge without execution is just that’s the denial. That’s like living in a dream world when you have information and when you have knowledge about the areas that you want to change and you don’t change them.

That’s on you. And by the time this episode comes out, there will be only 137 days left in 2021. How are you going to use them? Smart women will get their asses into my program and use eight of those weeks to start thinking, believing, and taking action like women who succeed on this journey. The choice is yours.

Be honest with yourself here and be willing to live with the consequences. And just remember, doll, it’s never too late to change. That’s, of course, until you give up. And third, again, if you love this podcast and the free content my team and I bring to you every fucking week, even when mama is on vacation, rain or shine, take a moment right now and give us a five star review.

Not only does it show your appreciation, it helps other women find this work. Love, when you make a decision to live in truth, whole truth, everything changes for you on this journey. You become more resourceful, you see opportunities when they show up, you raise your vibration and align with a life you truly want, you break free of the stories.

You become the woman positioned to succeed, who trusts herself, trusts her baby, and trusts her intuition. Now that sounds like one hell of a fertility fear slayer. My fearlessly fertile method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say, hell yes. to covering their bases, mind and body.

I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodology is help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy.

Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying, hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.