EP139 Smart Mama Move: Start Your Day With Wonderment

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It’s heartbreakingly easy to get trapped in the matrix of mind numbing routine and limiting beliefs on this journey.  Learn how “wonderment” is the key out of that sh*t show and is a downright Smart Mama Move.

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Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, badassery, and loads of hell Yes.

For your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 139, the Power of Wonderment Woman. It is so good to be with you this week. Love, I know I have been dropping bombs on you as of late. All because I love you and want you to be successful.

So this week we are going to switch gears a bit and I want to give you a little bit of mental candy. I want to share the idea of starting each day in wonderment. I know you might be thinking, What the fuck, Roseanne? What are you even talking about? My life is a shitshow. I’ve got appointments, scans, retrievals, sticks to pee on, a joyless, rigid as fuck diet to abide by, and you have the audacity to ask me to start my day in wonderment?

Piss off! Look, Mama, I get it. And I’m asking you to stick with me on this. This shit is legit. So let’s start in a lawyerly fashion, like occasionally I like to do, by defining what the shit this wonderment is. As defined by the American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language, 5th edition, wonderment is as follows.

Astonishment, awe, or puzzlement. Something that produces wonder. A marvel. Surprise! That’s our working definition, Mama. Seriously, ask yourself, when was the last time you woke up and thought of your life with astonishment, awe, or puzzlement, something that produces wonder or a marvel, surprise or astonishment?

I bet that, you know, you may have had moments of that, but you probably don’t wake up with that sense of awe on the regular. More often than not, what happens is we fall asleep in our lives. We become trapped in the matrix of our social conditioning, our limiting beliefs, and even our daily routine. The days sort of start to blend together and the next thing we know, it’s two years later and not a goddamn thing has changed.

It can happen in a flash. Having fallen asleep in my life before, I know first hand, painfully, how fast it can happen and how tragic it is. Which is why I’m sharing this idea with you. I’m sure that you’ve heard shit like this before, but when you are on this journey, there is a legitimate urgency to make living with wonderment a reality.

You’re trying to call in a life, mama. Let me remind you what you’re doing on this journey. You’re trying to call in a life. You make it exponentially harder to call in that life when the life you are living is a mere existence. Existence is not the same as living love. Not the fucking same. Now, there may be part of you that blows The idea of doing something other than existing as a nice to have, or isn’t that a cute thing she’s talking about?

But you’ve got to listen up close because this can actually impact your results. Think about it. When we are stuck in the matrix and we can’t see how amazing it is to be alive, even while on this journey, which, you know, side note, I actually think this journey is a gift in our lives. Now, resist the temptation to chuck your mobile device, however you’re listening to this podcast.

Resist the temptation to throw that shit across the room and like stomp on it. Just keep, just follow me on this one. This is why this is important because if you can’t appreciate how amazing it is to be alive how the hell could you ever truly listen to me, how could you ever truly appreciate what it means to hold the baby you long for?

Think about that. When you live without wonderment you may have fleeting moments of appreciation. But you’ll just go back to sleep. And the scariest thing of all is you will teach your children to sleepwalk too. Not only is that a shit trait to pass on to your children, but you’ve got to understand this point.

It dampens your light. Mama, at a time when you have never needed to shine brighter, your light and you enjoying your life and the way that you live is the beacon that brings your baby home to you. What we put out into the world is reflected back to us. This is quantum physics, this is not just feminine woo hoo ry.

You know, California shit, I live in Idaho now, so I’m, I’m, I’m not in that California shit no more. But Even if you try to pass this off as woo woo, you can see real examples of this in your life. You know, when you go out there and you’re in a shitty mood, people are cutting you off on the road, people are rude, it’s because what you put out, you bring in.

Okay, and you know, I’m going to do a series on that later this year, but it’s something that you really, really want to think about and kick around because think about how different your attitude and choices would be when your paradigm, your worldview, or your filter is wonderment. Think about that. So, doll, let me ask you, are you sleepwalking?

Are you bored? Are you taking the fact that you woke up this morning for granted? Do you feel like a fucking victim? Do you get into funks that lead you to believe that nothing works out for your ass and other people just have shit easier than you do? These mama? Are all telltale signs that your ass needs to get a giant dose of wonderment.

What I love about wonderment is that it also keeps you firmly grounded in some fucking humility. Humility! Not the victim y entitlement bullshit that loooves to pervade this journey. It pervades it. And it’s for that reason I respectfully submit that if you are in that place, the wisest thing you can do for the sake of success on this journey is to get the fuck out.

reinvigorate and walk around with wonderment. Challenge yourself to think differently. Everything begins with you, love. You can’t get around it. The only cheat code you will ever get on this journey is realizing the role your mind plays. You can tell the difference between a woman who is on this journey and has got her mind right and a woman Whose mind is like circling the drain.

Worlds of completely different experiences. And that’s where you got to go. You’re committed to success. You got to get your mind right. That one move there will put you at a level eight. When the mofos around you are at a one there, I said it. You want an unfair advantage on fuck your mind and don’t act like you don’t.

Don’t act like you don’t want an unfair advantage on this journey. You want to win. There is no shame in your game, mama. Remember, you’re on this journey to have a baby. It does not serve the world for you to downplay that or act like it doesn’t mean anything to you. It means everything to you. So own your ambition on this journey.

Don’t be ashamed of it. Rock it out. Stay in your lane, and don’t give two shits about what anyone else is doing. This is a call on your life. Being a mom is not just some idle random shit you picked up on a weekend. This is part of you living your life purpose, and it’s a choice. You are making the choice to succeed.

This is your dream, therefore, your responsibility to show up in a way that propels you forward. That, my darling, calls for a heaping helping of wonderment. And I want to share something with you. I’m a huge fan of Vernon Howard. And one of his works talks about this very topic, the power of wonderment. And I’m going to read you this really quick passage because I think it’s super transformational and really can help drive this point home.

Quote, The very next time you feel overwhelmed by confusion or emptiness, look at this psychic state with a sense of wonderment. Yes, wonderment. Don’t react with customary fright or resistance. Calmly sit down and try to see what it’s all about. Be cheerfully curious, just as if it was a new adventure in self discovery.

For that is just what it is. Something quite remarkable will happen before your eyes. You will see the state in an amazing new way. It will no longer be emptiness, but something else, something which I cannot describe to you, but which you can know for yourself. The darkness. Turns to light. Isn’t that beautiful?

Think about how different you would see Circumstances in your life when you could come from a place of wonderment. I love Vernon Howard And this is why I’m presenting this to you this week So here’s an exercise to take what I have shared with you here to the next level live seven days In wonderment, step one.

Make the decision to live seven days of wonderment. Choose wonder, marvel, and awe over automatic negativity. Shame and doubt. For a full seven days, mama of full seven days, mark that shit on your calendar. Put a daily morning reminder in your phone that you have committed for the next seven days to live with wonderment that day.

Step two, keep a journal for that seven days. At the end of each day, be a credible historian of your experience. Detail what was wonderment over the broken down mindset habits that you usually entertain. You might find it absolutely fascinating what comes out onto the page. Notice the words you use and the way you feel in your body throughout this process.

And step three, text the link to this podcast episode to someone you think could benefit from it. Screenshot this episode and put it in your Facebook or Insta story tagging me. Share the shit out of this mama. And while you’re at it, take a moment to give us a five star review. It will make you feel so good to show gratitude for this free content my team and I serve you with.

Every week love you have a choice about how you live each precious day you are given on this earth waking up in the morning and having another day to swing the bat on this journey is not a given the way you see the world the way you think in the lens through which you view this journey can make all the difference.

In the world, where could you be 12 months from now if you got out of the trap of limiting beliefs and negativity that is currently keeping you small and stuck on this journey? Think about that. What could be different if your mind and body were working together in harmony to call in this baby instead of bickering like bitter bratty teenage girls?

What you do now could lead to your due date. In 2022, if you aren’t getting the results you want on this journey, my darling is time to put up the bat signal and call in your pink and blue haired fertility fairy godmother. My fearlessly fertile method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say, hell yes, to covering their bases, mind and body.

So you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret. I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodology is help women around the world make their mom dreams come true.

Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy. Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review.

Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

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