EP141 Smart Mama Move: Do Different Sh*t

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Does it feel like you keep doing the same old thing and getting the same old results? Mama, that’s called STUCK AF. Here’s a solution, served up hot and spicy, that will get you fired up about your journey in a whole new way. You will love the challenge I have for you!

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Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, badassery, and loads of hell Yes.

For your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 141. Smart momma move. Do different shit. Lovely lady have a baby. I’ve got another smart momma move for you this week and I believe the timing of presenting this very simple but powerful idea to you is fantastic.

Not just because we’re heading into the holiday season, but because of how critical it is for you to start thinking about where you want to be in the new year. Dude, it’s less than two months away. Think about how you started this year. Think about all of the ideas you had for how you would live it, what you would accomplish, and what you would say to yourself on December 31st.

Just think about that. Because as of this recording, December 31st is only 56 days away. So let me ask you this. Are you where you said? You were going to be. Are you where you said you were going to be? I’m not asking this question to shame or accuse you. It’s a legit inquiry. There may be part of you that is sad or disappointed about where you are and how things went.

That’s fine and legit. And ultimately, not where you can afford to stay, at least if you’re committed to succeeding on this journey. If you’ve heard me say it once, you’ve heard me say it a million times. Two things can be true at the same time. You can be disappointed with the result and not let that situation or series of situations distract you from where you’re headed.

You reap the lesson and keep going, mama. Staying stuck in victimhood or disappointment is just a form of self sabotage. No holds barred, are you where you want to be? I’m asking this question because If you can be lovingly honest with yourself, you can break out of the matrix of excuses and playing small that will keep you stuck.

People love to use the full hearty excuse of I guess it just wasn’t meant for me or it must be God’s will for me to not have what I want as a way to explain away why they are not where they want to be. But it’s complete and utter bullshit. You wouldn’t have the desire in your heart if it wasn’t God Universe’s source’s will for you.

Think about it. You feel this desire to be a mom to the core of your being, right? I come from the perspective that the divine speaks through us. And the idea that you would have this longing, you would have this feeling, you would have this knowing deep in your heart that being a mom is for you. Yet, the incredible power that is behind the Big Bang, or whatever it is that you believe, is suddenly just messing with you, and just suddenly up and decided that just because You run into a few roadblocks that, that you’re supposed to punk out, and I guess it just wasn’t for you, is crazy.

It’s a crazy idea. I come from the perspective that God universe source depends on us to bring shit to fruition. It’s up to us to bring shit to fruition in the physical. We have the spiritual inspiration to be a mom. It’s our soul’s calling. You can also say it’s our soul’s contract with our children.

But in the physical world, We can hear that still small voice really pushing us toward the thing, nudging us toward the thing that we want, but in the physical, we don’t just get to lay on the couch and hope and wish, we have to be active, we have to be out doing. We take responsibility, and if one thing isn’t working, we move on to the next.

That’s the kind of fire I’m talking about. And you were not created to be a weak, feckless being. You were given the gift of imagination, logic, reason, and intuition to leverage toward your destiny. You can feel this in your heart and you have everything that you need inside of you right now to get there.

You can’t intelligently utilize any of that doing the same old shit expecting a different result. Here’s the bottom line. Mama, you’ve got to do different shit. You’ve got to commit to doing different shit and execute on that. The way you currently approach your life in this journey is simply a matrix.

It’s like a fixed computer program. We just sort of do what we’ve always done, fall asleep, and rarely go back and retool the program. We don’t ever break out of the matrix until it becomes clear to us that there’s something outside of it. But you get to do something different. Now you get to be conscious, awake, and red pilled to the truth that you can live, be, do, and have Any fucking thing that you wish.

The idea that you can’t do what you want to do is absolute, as my UK ladies would say, rubbish. It’s made up. It’s someone else’s story that you took on because you didn’t know any better, or have been thus far too scared to release yourself from. As a grown ass woman, it is your duty. To the desire in your heart to see this dream through you got to do different shit mama Women have babies every fucking day despite crazy odds My ladies and I are living proof women overcome miscarriage women overcome stillbirth Women get pregnant naturally after repeated IVF failure.

I’m one of them. Women invest in themselves and survive. Women tell their partner what they want and go on to get it. Women get to invest as much as they want into this journey. You get to have a coach. You get to have the bump squad of your dreams. You get to do you, mama. All of this comes down. To you being willing to do different shit.

You want different results and you’ve, you’ve gotta do things differently. Okay? So I’m gonna keep this short because the most important thing is that you take action here. It is sometimes overwhelming when we think about the idea that, Oh my gosh, I’m just living according to my patterns. I’m just doing the same old thing every day, never questioning it.

But an entirely different experience and an entirely different world opens up for you when you have titanium ovaries. The kind of ovaries that are willing to say, hey look, this desire to be a mom is in my heart because it is fucking meant for me. And the way that I’ve been doing this journey has not gotten me the result that I want.

I’m going to do shit differently. I am going to do shit differently so I can get a different result. I really hope that this is sinking in because if you don’t recognize that you are trapped in the matrix by doing the same old shit over and over again, it is so much harder to get to the next level. It is so much harder to create a different result from doing the same old thing.

So this is an opportunity for you. At a time when the pressure is mounting, okay, we, there is less than two months left in the year, okay, and December 31st rolls around really quick. Think about what you said you would be saying to yourself at the end of the year. I mean, think back to the promises that you made to yourself on January 1st.

Of this year, we are less than two months away from go time going straight into the very new year. This, I mean, I know there’s a lot of pressure this time of year, which is why I said that earlier. However, smart women see the opportunity, smart women who beat the odds, don’t just crumble and fall apart at the end of the year, they get strategic.

And that’s what I am helping you do in the Smart Momma Move series. So here’s an exercise to take what I’ve been ranting about here. To the next level, 72 hours of doing different shit. Step one, block off three full days, 72 hours where you will do different shit. I mean, consider doing the exact opposite of what you would normally do.

Instead of reacting like a victim, when you see a pregnant woman or a friend announces she is pregnant, be the fucking first person to congratulate her with your whole heart. Do the opposite of what your saboteurs want you to do. Your saboteurs want you to run off into a corner and feel sorry for yourself and lick your wounds and run off into some useless fucking story that you’re never gonna have a baby.

I am challenging you to do the opposite because that woman’s pregnancy has nothing to do with you. Do not feed your jealousy saboteur. Maybe there’s something you want to tell your partner. Instead of dancing around the subject and ruminating for days or weeks, just fucking tell them from a place of love and commitment to your relationship.

Tell them what you want! If there’s something you want to buy and you would normally blow off as too expensive, get the fucking thing! You are a grown woman who can figure out how to pay for shit. Using time and money are the lamest excuses in the world. You have a brain, use it. If you never take a break at work, woman block off 15 minute intervals where you just don’t work.

I have so many lovably type A control, freaky professional ladies that I have the good fortune and fucking honor of coaching. And these women are so committed as physicians, lawyers, teachers, nurses, artists, bankers. I mean, All of these women are so hardworking, but rarely, if ever, take a break, okay? So, this is your opportunity to do something different.

And, you know, give yourself a chance to regroup, especially if you find yourself hard charging at work. Because, instead of constantly being in reaction mode, if you give yourself a break, you will be more productive and receptive to your work. There. I just made you some money and your employer slash clients or patients will love you more, baby.

Now, here’s another one relating to last week’s episode. Instead of being too nice and saying yes to everything, be a grown up and just say no. Just say no. See that no was like escaping my mouth before I even finished the sentence. You get the picture here, okay? These are all examples of how you might do shit differently, okay?

You might do different shit. You are smart and can decide for yourself how you choose to execute this challenge. Use your common sense and some fucking imagination, right? Maybe there’s something outside of the examples I gave, but you know your life best. Challenge yourself. You know where you stop.

Challenge yourself to do something really different. Step two. Keep a journal of what you notice is different as you do this exercise. Do you feel nervous? Do you feel more free? Did you fuck some shit up but feel exhilarated anyway? Keep a journal and keep it real. If you feel like it, drop us a line at info at from maybe to baby.

com and tell us how this shit went. And step three, text the link to this podcast episode to someone you think could benefit from it. Screenshot this episode and put it in your Facebook or Insta story tagging me. Share the shit out of this. And while you’re at it, take a moment to give us a five star review.

It will make you feel so good to show your gratitude for this top notch free content my team and I serve you with every week. Rain or shine. Love. You gotta do different shit. If you aren’t getting the results you want on this journey, it’s time to look at your mind, mama. Our results on this journey are, they come down to our thoughts, beliefs, and actions, okay?

It’s logical and linear and ultimately inescapable. Thoughts, beliefs, actions. Results. It’s the law of cause and effect. Think about every woman you’ve heard on this podcast, watched on YouTube, and whose pee sticks you have seen in the Hyralite reels on my Instagram. They all did different shit. They all were brave enough to do different shit.

They flipped the script and changed the pattern. They got out of the fucking matrix. Think about where you could be 12 months from now. If you did the same, what you do now could lead to your due date in the new year. Time to call your pink and blue haired fertility fairy godmother into the picture. My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say hell yes!

To covering their bases, mind and body. So you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret. I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this program, Go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodology has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true.

Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby girl, you’ve got a gaping hole in your strategy. Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast?

Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.