EP146 Whole Hearted Holiday Homework

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There’s ONE thing that you can do during the holiday season, that can finally put the smackdown on lack and scarcity, stories of “not being good enough,” and the pleasure anorexia that can pervade this journey.  This is big, bold, and a little rock n’roll…you will love it. It’s the coolest homework ever—check it out!

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Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, badassery, and loads of hell Yes.

For your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 146. Wholehearted holiday homework. Hey loves. I am happy as hot cocoa to be with you this week as we are within spitting distance of traditional gift giving season.

And because what you do with what I have for you this week is more important than hearing me rant about it. I’m going to keep this short and oh so sweet. This time of year, I love to throw a challenge to you that is an opportunity for you to upend the lack and scarcity stories that tend to dominate our lives, particularly when we’re on this journey.

Very often, we get caught up in the odd habit of measuring everything and anything we do up against what treatment costs. We live by weird equations like, I can’t possibly have that because the price of that is X. We compare everything to the investments we make in treatment, diets, coaching, etc. When one has nothing to do with the other.

Nothing. We tend to go into freak out and starve ourselves of the very pleasures that make life worth living and raise our vibration in such a way as to make us irresistible to our babies. Now, I get that some of you will get what I just said, and others might not, so let me put it to you this way. When you feel loved, supported, seen, and taken care of, your energy goes through the fucking roof.

The world feels completely different. You see opportunities, you take leaps, and your optimism is enhanced. This is why what I’m asking you to do is fucking strategic. It’s not woo woo fluff. When you are all in on this journey, you understand that it isn’t just about getting the right treatment, diet, lotion, or potion.

It’s about the whole picture. That includes your mind. And how you feel about yourself, the thoughts that dominate your experience, and whether you believe you are worth every dime you invest on this journey. All of that impacts your results. You cannot escape it. Your perception of yourself controls the way you see the world.

And everything in it after coaching women to fertility success for coming up on seven years now with incredible results. One of the things I know without question is if you don’t take care of yourself on this journey by wholeheartedly investing in you and your dream, you virtually guarantee your failure.

Okay, no joke, because here’s the opposite of that. Living by other people’s lack and scarcity stories. That’s the opposite. Seriously, how resilient and resourceful will you be if you’re starved to death of pleasure and support? How likely are you to say hell yes to the things you want most when you’re trapped, suffocating under the weight of other people’s fear and judgment?

Are you getting this? And look, frankly, anyone that would judge you for having exactly what you desire on this journey is likely someone that doesn’t need to be on your fucking bump squad. Anyone who wants to keep you small and starving like they are isn’t someone you want in your corner. Look at people who are truly thriving.

They take care of themselves and they are not starved of joy. In fact, it’s their joy. It’s their pleasure. It’s their connection to their faith that keep them moving forward. That’s why for the love of all things holy, I am inviting you to take on the wholehearted holiday homework of buying yourself something truly special this year.

Put yourself at the top of the fucking gift list for once. And go bananas, whatever that might mean for you. The pleasure anorexia we engage in on this journey has got to fucking stop. It dims your light and restricts your resilience. Riddle me this, Batman. How the hell is your baby supposed to find you when you are living this journey like a dried up prune?

Of the woman you once were. You are smart, vibrant, sexy, strong, lovable, and well equipped. Fucking add some pleasure to that and you are unstoppable! My loves, I want you to be successful as fuck in the new year. And it starts with what you do now. I have no idea who needs to hear this rant. But I trust that God Universe Source will direct it to those that need it most, and they’ll probably resist it the most.

But look, I’m willing to bet there is something about what I’m saying to you right now that is speaking directly to your soul. And it’s probably the part that is long overdue for getting some attention. Give yourself a chance to disengage from the same old, same old. Get out of the stories and really get yourself some evidence.

Okay? Because a lot of the shit that’s keeping you back on this journey, a lot of the things that are keeping you starve of pleasure, joy, peace, all of those things that you are dying for right now. The things that are telling you, you can’t have the things that you’re starving for. They’re just stories.

So when you go out and get evidence, you go out and do things, and you challenge those paper tigers, you give yourself an opportunity to completely live an entirely new reality. This is why I’m presenting you with this challenge, because I want you to grow stronger. I want you to grow in trust in yourself, and I want you to see That it is your birthright to live this journey in any way that you please.

And for heaven’s sake, have an amazing time on it. It can be a journey of pleasure as much as it is a journey of growth. And look loves you’ve been pushing so hard all year. We’ve been challenging you on so many different levels. Now is the time that you get to lean back and indulge mama. Mama needs her soul fed.

Give yourself a fucking gift and be indulgent. You deserve it. And that’s, what’s going to keep you moving forward. So here’s an exercise to take what I’ve shared here with you to the next level. Go buy yourself something. You will remember. Step 1. The time is now to let go of the BS that says that you can’t have what you want.

The universe is an abundant place and there’s no reason why you can’t have it, other than the stories you make up or allow other people to smear all over you. Am I suggesting that you spend yourself into oblivion? No, this is where you get to use your common sense. The part of you that might be saying, does she think money grows on trees?

I can’t possibly spend on myself is the exact part of you that will talk you out of doing what you know you need to do to be successful on this journey. And that is a fact that exact saboteur, that will be the reason why you will stop short of your dreams. And it’s why I’m offering you a chance now to show that bitch she’s wrong.

You can be on this journey and feel amazing. These ideas are not mutually exclusive, and in fact, you improve your results when your heart sings because your choices are different! Thoughts, beliefs, actions, results. And for those who are clinging to the idea that this is just woo woo fluff, this can’t possibly make a difference, I will repeat that.

Thoughts, beliefs, actions, results. You cannot outrun truth. You cannot run this. So in this first step, love, I am inviting you to feel about something that would truly blow your mind and that you will remember forever. Note that I didn’t say, think about something that you want. I want you to feel about something that you desire that would truly blow your mind to have, and we’ll remember.

Get it for you. Get it for the woman you choose to be. Get it to show this baby when they’re born. By you loving yourself enough to break past your stories and over dependence on what people think, you will be able to teach your child to do the same. Because you have the street cred that comes from actually Doing the thing.

So feel about what it is that you would love to gift yourself. That you will remember forever and remember the moment that you made a decision that you were going to stop living your fertility journey in lack and scarcity. And step two, once you know what you want to buy, go get it. Do not hesitate, do not stall, do not make any excuses, do not freak out.

Trust yourself, just go execute. There is no higher authority on what would make you happy than you. Get it before the end of the year. Pay for expedited shipping, get your ass in the car, go pick that shit up. Whatever it takes. Refuse to take on guilt and shame. Both of those things are not of God Universe’s source.

They’re simply stories designed to keep us disconnected from who we really are. Time’s up on that shit. And once you get whatever it is that you desire, Don’t leave it in the plastic, don’t leave it in the box, use it, wear it, practice it. Notice how different you feel, notice your energy, know what it feels like to do for you.

You’ve been so busy taking care of everyone else. Now, you get to indulge mama. And step three, text the link to this podcast episode to someone you think could benefit from it, screenshot it, and put it in your Facebook story tagging me! Share the shit out of this! There’s probably more than a few women that need to hear this.

And while you’re at it, take a moment to give us a five star review. It will make you feel so good and show your gratitude for this free content that my team and I serve you with every week, rain or shine. Love. You might be thinking to yourself that it’s not so much a thing that you want, But an experience.

And I want you to know that counts too. You might be thinking that you’ve been wanting to see what all the buzz around my Fearlessly Fertile Method program is all about. Perhaps you’ve been watching the YouTube videos, seeing me post the pee sticks on Instagram of my ladies having babies, and you’ve wanted to unleash the power of getting fearless on your own journey.

There’s never been a better time to secure your spot. When you learn to think, believe, and take action like a woman who succeeds on this journey, anything is possible. Every woman you’ve heard on my podcast this entire year, and even before that, were all united in having made a decision to give to herself.

And the payoff was extraordinary. Join them with your whole heart. My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months, and say, hell yes! To covering their bases, mind and body. So you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret. I work with women who are committed to success.

To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodologies help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results? Speak for themselves. Baby, if you don’t have a mindset for success in this journey, you’ve got a gaping hole in your strategy, love.

Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying, hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.