EP161 The End of Q1: Are You Headed In The Right Direction?

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With the first quarter of the year ending, smart women will ask a powerful question: Am I headed in the right direction? But, they won’t stop there! Learn the most important next step wise women will take when they are committed to success on their fertility journey. If you aren’t ecstatic with where you’re at, […]

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Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless, baby. Fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, episode 161, the end of Q1. Are you headed in the right direction? Hey loves, it’s so good to be here with you this week and I am super excited about what we are going to be diving into today. I’m going to keep this short and sweet so that you can take prompt action on what I’m going to share, if you’re so inclined.

At the time of this recording, we are coming to the end of the first quarter of this year. It’s crazy to think how quickly the first three months have flown by. It seems like yesterday that we were ringing in the new year. Time flies, ladies, and this is why I am posing this deceptively simple and very powerful question to you this week.

Are you headed in the right direction? When you ask yourself this question, I don’t want you to ask it from a judgmental or with a scathing tone. This question isn’t being offered to shame you, but to empower you. Wise women keep their eye on the prize and do not run. It’s way better to be asking this question now from a frank and loving place than to get to September and wonder what the fuck is going on and why nothing is working out for you in the way that you wanted it to this year.

Trust me, been there, done that. Are you headed in the right direction? Be honest. Are your choices lining up with what you say you wanted for yourself this year? You may find that with some things, the answer is yes. But in some key areas, your answer is no. And that is perfectly reasonable. The good news is this gives you a really important measure of where your attention needs to be directed for the rest of the year.

Because I work with high achieving, make it happen, no excuses women. It’s easy to overlook this question because those of us wired that way tend to be in a constant state of do. But what I am asking you to do here. Is be smarter than stuck in do mode. You’ve got to be strategic from the heart. Are you headed in the right direction?

Wise women will answer this question from the neck down. The most informed regret proof decisions and awarenesses come from the neck down. So when you’re asking this question, If you don’t know what that means or you don’t trust your heart girl get your ass in my fearlessly fertile method program And let’s unfuck that shit quick.

If your answer is no, I am NOT headed in the right direction Say no to the temptation to go into a spiral of self pity snap out of it Remember you have three quarters left to get your shit together And the sooner, the better. Be careful about swinging to the other end of the spectrum, though, where you might tell yourself, Oh, things are going well, I’m just fine.

Be honest. When you hear things in that tone, chances are your saboteurs are really fucking sneaky and will lull you into Pollyanna ing your shit into sleepy eyed denial. Then you get to December 31st and find yourself sipping a bitter cocktail of self pity and blaming anyone with a pulse in despair over another year falling short of the target.

It’s a harsh reality, but it is nonetheless reality. And what you’ve got to know is one of the most dangerous places for women like us to be, whether it’s on this journey or in other aspects of our lives, is fucking comfortable. Fucking comfortable is a dangerous place to be, because in reality, you’re either moving forward or you’re sliding back.

Nobody wants to hear that. Nobody wants to face that fact. But it’s a reality. Life is in a constant state of motion. So you’ve got to make sure that you are staying the hell away from comfortable. Comfortable is no place for a woman like you, who has a big call in her life, to be. Stay the fuck out of that neighborhood.

You do not want to live there or even slightly take up residence. You might visit for a second, but you certainly do not stay. Getting an honest read on where you are is meant to be empowering, not humiliating. Love yourself enough, and love your dream enough to get real about where you are from a loving heart.

Place. I think I’ve said that more than a few times in this particular episode. So if you find yourself saying, Oh, what’s that? I mean, are you? What are you saying? I’m not doing enough? Uh uh uh. Uh uh uh. You’re not going to lay that on me. Be bigger than that. Be smarter than that. Be better than that. And really listen to what I am saying here.

This can make a huge difference for the rest of your year. We have to get to a point where we have the humility to face reality in our lives. And look, if you don’t like where you’re at, baby girl, you can change it. That’s like the best thing ever. So don’t fall for your saboteur’s tricks of wanting to make this about, oh, you know, I’m already doing 50 things.

What does this crazy lady want me to do? 51? Well, maybe if that’s what’s going to make you successful, you’re damn straight. My ladies are pretty goddamn successful. So I know something about being able to push you and to get you to the right place. So keep that in mind. And look, you have everything in you right now to get back on track.

As I said, if you don’t like where you’re at, You can fucking change it. And remember, if your way isn’t working, take the hint and try something new. You never know what might happen. Maybe even try my way. Women all over the world are doing it and finding incredible success. So here’s an exercise to take what I’ve shared here with you to the next level.

Decide what Q2 is going to be about for you. Step one. Make a conscious, clear, and precise decision about what Q2 is going to be about. Write a simple 10 word statement of what this next quarter in this year is going to be about for you. No overthinking, over promising, or settling for the same old shit.

Make a decision. If you aren’t good at that, listen to episode 159 about 10 times. And get your ass into my program, okay? Now, some may, listening to this, may complain, Rosanna, I mean, what are you talking about? I can’t possibly distill what I want for myself or what this Q2 is gonna be about for me in ten words.

What I’m encouraging you to do is get it to that place. Ten words or less, the fewest number of commas possible. What is Q2 going to be about for you because the simpler that you can make it and the more precise you can be, the more likely you are to follow through. Okay, simplicity is key. What is Q2?

Going to be about for you step to make a promise to yourself that you will make good on this Decision keep your fucking word. We build trust in ourselves through Integrity that doesn’t necessarily mean that we have to do it all ourselves But we do have to make promises to ourselves and keep them if we are ever going to have any hope of trusting ourselves Trust is huge mama.

And if you don’t trust you or your body You are not going to trust this baby, and that is a recipe for disaster. You’ve got at least 18 years as a mama, okay? 18 years plus, and that requires a whole lot of trust and a whole lot of faith. So everything that you’re doing now is laying a powerful foundation for not only how you are going to approach your fertility, how you’re going to approach your pregnancy, But ultimately how you’re going to approach motherhood.

Everything that you’re doing right now is an investment in your future. Don’t be penny wise and pound foolish. And don’t be short sighted. Your family is depending on you. And look, if this is something you know you need to work on, get your ass into my program and join a crew of women beating the fucking odds.

And step three, text the link to this podcast episode to someone you think could benefit from it. Screenshot the episode, put in your Facebook or Insta story tagging me. Share the shit out of this while you are at it. Take a moment right now to give us a five star review. Just take your little thumb, hit five stars, that’s all you gotta do.

Because it’s going to help other women find this incredibly important work. It’ll make you feel so good to show your gratitude for this free content my team and I serve you with every week. Love, you have three quarters left in this year. It doesn’t matter what happened in Q1. You have the chance to right the ship now.

What you do now, the choices you make now, the changes you make now, and the commitment. That you make now could put you in a position you only dreamed of being in on December 31st. Everything begins and ends with you. The good news is that you are the one thing you can control on this journey. If Q1 has not yielded the result you desire, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get on a new path.

The smartest path is one that includes getting out of the patterns that keep you stuck on this journey. It’s about thinking like a woman who succeeds, so you don’t miss a single opportunity that could give you The winning edge. Love, you can put yourself in the mama making winner’s circle by the end of the year!

20 of my ladies in the first 81 days of this year have gotten pregnant. It’s fucking insane. They have made the seemingly impossible possible. If you want this to be your year, sister, join us. My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say hell yes to covering their bases, mind and body.

So you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret. I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodologies help women around the world make their mom dreams come true.

Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success in this journey, baby girl, you got a gaping hole in your strategy. Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast?

Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.