EP166 Want To Know Your Sabotage Pattern?

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If you are curious about how you engage in conscious or unconscious sabotage patterns on this journey, the exercise I am sharing in this episode will BLOW YOUR MIND. Women who are serious about success on this journey identify their sabotage pattern and do something about it. What I share in this episode will help […]

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Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell. Yes.

For your fertility journey, it’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 166. Two critical questions to ask right now. Hey, loves, I’m super duper extra excited to be here with you this week because I am on the road as I record this episode.

I am in Hotlanta. Man, what a wonderful food city. I have realized on this trip that perhaps in another life, I was a Southerner. Seriously, I’ve had an almost religious experience with fried chicken, collards, cornbread, real banana pudding. I, I, I, thank goodness for fasting. In any event, the fact that I’m traveling this week, learning, spending time with one of my favorite mentors.

Getting ready for a photo shoot in Savannah and all kinds of goodness reminds me of a critical fact that you must remember for this journey. You get to live your life any way you wish, whether you believe me or not, it’s true. Back when I was a prosecutor, I only dreamed of writing books, having events, running a business that serves women around the world at the highest level.

Sharing what I learned with other women like me, having a creative outlet like this podcast, being able to give big to charities, have the freedom to live wherever the hell I want, be available to drop everything and be with my son, tap into abundance, deepen my unshakable faith in Gus, God, universe source, and to live the purpose that was screaming at the top of her lungs in my heart.

Now, I’m going to be honest with you, none of that has been easy, but it has been simple. It required obedience to my heart and the willingness to overcome my most thunderous fear and excuses. And truly, that part is a challenge every day. Why? Because life is not fucking static, it’s changing by the second, just like you are changing every second.

Nothing stays the same. Right now, as you’re listening to this, zillions of cells, I don’t actually know if that’s the number, but that’s the number I’m using. Zillions of cells in your body are moving around, your heart is pumping blood, it’s moving from one place to another. Your skin is regenerating. Your hair is growing.

The earth is turning on its axis. Cars are moving. Packages are being delivered. Dinner is being made. Gifts are being given. Calls are being made. Flights are landing. People are getting home. Babies are being conceived. Babies are being born. You get the picture. Nothing stays the same. We are in constant motion, so what you are thinking on a daily basis matters.

Why? Because it’s influencing everything you fucking do. Everything. You can’t escape it. The thoughts you think, the excuses you make, the risks you take or don’t take, the yeses or nos you say are either moving you forward or sliding you back. Now, that’s a fact. With things in constant change and perpetual motion, It’s either forward or backward, baby.

Your saboteur stories will try to tell you otherwise. But they are the worst kind of fake news and manipulation. They want you stuck and safe because they are afraid. Your fearless self is not. She knows what’s up and she’s giving you inspiration and direction all the fucking time. The question is who are you listening to?

Who has authority in your life? You. Are your saboteurs as I’m sharing this with you. It makes me even more excited about the program. We’re launching called Fearlessly Fertile Daily. My Fearlessly Fertile Method alumni will get their VIP invitations first, and then we’ll be opening enrollment to the world on May 12th with the absolute last day to enroll being May 20th.

You seriously don’t want to miss this chance. Ladies, if you’ve been coached by me or are dying for more. Or you’ve been on the sidelines wanting to coach with me, but have been too afraid to take the leap. Or you’ve been telling yourself that ridiculous life. Oh, I don’t need that. I can just listen to these podcasts and it’s going to be the same thing.

Nah, it ain’t. There’s a huge difference between passively listening. And doing something active to take control on this journey. You will want to jump on this. This is a live daily program where we are going to be together 30 days straight for live bite sized 15 minute or less lessons. And it’s going to be 30 days of daily loving kicks to the pants that will keep you moving forward.

Thinking like a woman who succeeds and thriving on this journey. Each day’s lesson will be recorded, so you’ll have access to it via our fearlessly fertile daily site. So you won’t miss a thing. Don’t listen to that saboteur either. Oh, I’m going to miss something. No, no, you won’t. And as part, you’re going to love this.

As part of Fearlessly Fertile Daily, you’re also going to have two 90 minute live Q& A coaching sessions with me so you can really get what I’ll be teaching into your bones deep and make it practical for your life. Even better, in this group program, you’re going to have the chance to be on, you know, it’s going to be a great way to get back on track and be with women from around the world that are committed.

To being a success on the strains community is amazeballs and what you’re going to gain over 30 days together is going to be tremendous. Think about it. We’re almost halfway through the year loves. If you aren’t where you want to be on this journey, what you do now can make all the difference in the world.

What you do now is going to impact what you say to yourself on December 31st. You made yourself a promise at the beginning of the year. I am sure of it. And now is the time to get back on track with this. You can do it. And I’m going to be there to help you for 30 days straight. And just so you know, it’s really cool.

This program ends on my miracle boy, Asher’s birthday. So we’re really solidifying belief in miracles. By having the program and on that day, it’s going to be great. And you don’t want to miss this goodness. But going back to the point, that being said, I want to present you with two important questions that I invite you to ask yourself right now, because what you think daily matters is literally creating real results in your life.

And I’m going to show you how it’s doing that. I want to demonstrate for you how it’s doing that. So get something to write with and something to write on. This won’t take long, but what you will get from it will blow your mind. Give yourself 10 minutes to do this exercise. Really think five minutes per question.

And you may think to yourself, I don’t need that that long. But the reality is, if you want to do this exercise, to its fullest and really walk away with something that is going to change the way your week might look. You want to put in the time. So here’s the first question slash part reflecting on the past seven days, write down all the things you did not do that you said you were going to do.

Think about that. What are the things you said you would do, but didn’t. In the last seven days, go ahead and make your list. Now think of even the smallest things, not just the big stuff. Maybe you said you would go a day without sugar and didn’t. Maybe you said you’d stop listening to the fear mongering news and you were glued to it.

Maybe you said you would get more sleep. And you didn’t, whatever it is, write it down. This is about awareness, not judgment. Okay. Go ahead and make that list right now. You can pause the podcast right now if you want. Um, just do it, do it. It’s really important. Now here’s the second part or the second question.

Reflecting on the past seven days, list all of the reasons or excuses you use to justify not doing what you said you were going to do. What were the excuses that you used to justify not doing what you said you were going to do? Be honest. This is about awareness, not judgment. Maybe you said you were too tired or claimed you didn’t have enough time or told yourself, Oh, I can do it later.

Maybe you said, this candy bar won’t matter. Maybe you said, I’m too old, so it doesn’t matter anyway. I’ve failed a bunch of times, so there’s no use in changing anything. It won’t work for me. Sound familiar? What were your excuses? Write each and every one of them down. Pause the podcast right now. Go do it.

Now, when you are done, I want you to really look at the lists you made. What did you not do because of your excuses? Then really look those excuses. Your excuses are a reflection of what you think and therefore believe. Let me repeat what I just said. Your excuses are a reflection of what you think and therefore truly believe.

I don’t care what anyone says. The truth can be found in your actions. You can talk a big game, but what you think, believe, and do daily is having a cumulative effect on your success. Think about how different and more productive your days, weeks, months, and years would be if you weren’t making those lame fucking excuses.

When you look at your list of excuses, you will see the way your mind Will threaten to sabotage your success on this journey. It’s a fact we are human beings and as human beings, we live by pattern recognition, and if we do nothing about our sabotage pattern, we are fucked. Your pattern will be, you know, it’s going to help you be successful at work, but chances are.

If you have shit boundaries and don’t keep your word to yourself on this journey, you have shit boundaries and don’t keep your word to yourself at work. The way we do one thing is the way we do everything, which is why you have to be working on your mind daily if you are really committed to success. I know someone is going to be belly aching somewhere saying, Roseanne, I’m already doing 50 things right now to get pregnant.

Do I really have to add my mindset to this? You know what my answer to that question is going to be. How committed are you to being successful? Everything starts with your thoughts. Your decision to get out of bed this morning, because it is a decision, starts the ball rolling. If your thoughts aren’t directed to success daily, how are you ever going to get there?

It can’t be some occasional side gig that you’re doing. It’s got to be fucking daily. If you’re serious about making your dream of being a mom come true. Success doesn’t happen by accident, mama. And every woman you’ve heard on this podcast will tell you that. They are living proof. This exercise that I just gave you will wake you up and get your attention.

We are heading fast into the midpoint of the year. How will you use the next six months on this journey? I don’t care if you failed earlier in the year or things are looking bleak. You get to turn things around now. Will you use this time wisely or will you keep doing the same old shit? Really do the work to think about what came out in this exercise love, because look enrollment for my fearlessly fertile daily is starting soon.

We’re going to begin on June 1st. It’s the perfect time to press the reset button on your mindset. Get yourself into the daily structure and form the habit. Because what we do daily forms a habit of thinking like a woman who succeeds on this journey. You owe it to yourself. You owe it to your dream. It’s going to be so fucking fun and transformational.

So when the invites come out, jump on it. Coaching with me has never been offered in this form and it’s never been more accessible. So don’t miss it. And lastly, love text link to this podcast episode to someone you think could benefit from it. You might know somebody right now that is living by a shit ton of excuses and is keeping themselves stuck on this journey or in their life.

Screenshot this episode, put it in your Facebook or Instastory tagging me, share the shit out of this, and while you’re at it, take a moment to give us a 5 star review. We’ll make you feel so good to show your gratitude for this free content my team and I serve you with every week. Love, you made a commitment to yourself in one form or another that this year was going to be different.

You would be different. Make a decision that you will do exactly that. Look at the commitments that you are making, what you’re doing or not doing, and the excuses you use to not keep your word to yourself. Remember, this is not about judgment. It’s about awareness because this is showing you your self sabotage pattern at work.

You can be, do, and have better. Be the woman that will seize the opportunity to do exactly that. On this journey, my fearlessly fertile method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say hell yes to covering their bases, mind and body. So you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret.

I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodologies help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy.

Let’s fix that shit with my Fearlessly Fertile Daily or my Fearlessly Fertile Method program. Either way, let’s set you up for success till next time. Change your mindset. Change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you.

When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.