EP190 Baby-Making Breakthrough: The Moment Everything Changed

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Is there actually a “moment,” when you have a breakthrough on this journey that empowers you to finally let go and receive the GOOD that is coming for you? Yes. AND you will never forget it. Over this 3-part series, I describe mine, so you can set yourself up for YOURS.

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Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, badassery, and loads of hell Yes.

For your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 190. Baby making breakthrough! The moment everything changed. Hey loves! Wow! It is so good to be here with you this week as we begin a three part series that has been on my heart for some time.

I get asked all the time, What changed for me around the time that my husband and I called in our son? What was different? What was I doing? Was there a moment? So I’ve decided that over the course of the next three episodes, I’m actually going to break that down. Why? Because it was right around this time of year, six years ago, That I started making changes in my life that brought Asher to me just about 12 months later.

The changes put my journey on warp speed for the Trekkie nerds like me out there. I mean, because think about it. Yes, I had been making changes prior to that working on my mindset. But there was a full throttle moment that was an actual pivot point. And that’s really what I’m breaking down here. I mean, my journey was seven years long, but a decision that I made in the fall, six years ago, it changed everything and it compressed the amount of time.

It like, it took all of those six years and basically like, crushed them down into this 12 pivotal months that made a massive change, not only on my journey, but in my life. Now, y’all hear me at the end of every episode talking about how my work is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months.

The reason why that is so important is when we finally make up our mind to do something and stop dicking around with thoughts to the contrary, crazy things do happen. Within that 12 months. Now, is that a guarantee it’s gonna happen in 12 months? Come on, use your brain. No one can promise you that. And as a side note, I’m gonna point something out about people who are looking for guarantees.

The need for a guarantee in and of itself is a strong indicator that you don’t believe something can happen for you. Such that you won’t take a fucking risk. Super sad place to be. Because anything that’s worth a shit in this life requires risk. If you’re too scared to go out on a limb for this baby, invest the money, take the chance.

Sister, you may want to reconsider being on this journey. Momming requires you to buck the fuck up. And you may as well get used to that and get that shit dialed in now. But I digress. In the end, the timeline doesn’t fucking matter. Because you know how the story ends. Twelve months or whatever. But you can’t just say that.

You have to believe it. I mean really believe it because your beliefs are making choices for you right now, mama, in what you do or don’t do, what you say yes to or no to, what you lie to yourself about, and whether you’ll actually use your mind to your advantage on this journey because Your mind is the great equalizer.

It, it is. When a woman makes an actual decision, she can’t be stopped and blessings come to her in insane ways. Okay? That’s why I’m doing this series. You know, and it’s also on my heart to do this series because I’m launching a brand new program in the coming weeks that begins on New Year’s Day. You want 2023 to be your year?

Fuckin join us. You will not want to miss this shit. I am going to be taking a select group of women through the exact things I did on a daily basis during the first 90 days of the year we finally conceived Asher. Like, it’s been on my heart to break this down and really Walk women through this, and I couldn’t be more excited.

And why am I doing this? Because it fucking works. And I want as many women as I can get my hands on to feel what I feel today. And what each and every one of my Miracle Mamas feels today because they went full throttle. The way you show up, how you think, what you do in the first 90 days of the year can put a baby in your belly or in your arms by December 31st.

Seriously, the choices that you make now, I mean, today, mama today could put you on a wildly different trajectory. A year from now, you could be in a wildly different place one year from now. There’s just over two months left in 2022, and smart women are listening to this, are thinking ahead. They’re thinking about how they are going to ensure that 2023 is not just another half asleep replay of 2022.

It’s called Fearlessly Fertile Full Throttle. You will have me for 90 days straight daily, you will read what I read, you will learn what I learn, you will take control of your journey in a way that there will be no fucking doubt in your mind that you are doing everything you possibly can. Who you will become over those 90 days is going to be cray.

And what you will have the chance to create By the end of the year, fucking phenomenal. Look, at the time of this recording, 63 women who have come through my program have gotten pregnant this year. 63 is not a fluke, it’s a fucking phenomenon. You want some of that? Be on the lookout for Fearlessly Fertile Full Throttle.

Back to the matter at hand. Let’s talk about the moment that I was alluding to before. Because there was a moment. Like I said earlier, it was October, Northern California, wine country, and I was sitting in my office thinking to myself, you know what, dude? You are holding back. You know you want bigger, better, bolder.

And at the time, my clients were getting pregnant left and right. I had one miscarriage under my belt and it was clear to me that my life was on a trajectory. I knew that what I was teaching worked. It helped bring in my first pregnancy and the pregnancies of so many of the women I absolutely loved working with.

But I was still fucking holding back. I was still playing a little safe. There was an urgency that started to well up in my heart. I had no idea how my son was coming, but it was very clear to me, crystal clear, that it was up to me. Who? Was I willing to be? How far was I willing to go? How much deeper could I take my faith?

How much more could I believe? What version of me, Roseanne Austen, was I willing to step into? Was I willing to let go of the stories, the beliefs, the residue of the past, whose nails I could still feel digging into me? Was I willing to be left behind? The woman with the longing, but not receiving, who was I going to be?

And I know you all have heard me say in one way or another that this journey is a gift, and it is. Not just because it will unite us with a love that is beyond any measure or comprehension, aka our children, but because it is the exact existential crisis that has the power to take us from comfortably puny mediocrity Into a level of faith, trust, self confidence, and abundance that few may ever truly experience.

So what am I babbling on about? There is a moment, love, and the question I have for you right now is are you truly willing to receive it? Will you seize the moment? Will you jump at the chance to make this coming year truly remarkable? Moments like this don’t come along often, and as you listen to this right now, Do you feel the urgency?

I’m serious. I want you to actually feel this in your body. Do you feel an urgency? Do you feel this gnawing in your heart that you know the time to do something truly radical, to change the trajectory of your journey is now? Or will you go on settling for crumbs, pretending like everything is just fine, and that you’ll stay stuck in the comfortable box of patterns that you’ve created?

I say that, my darling women, woman, I say that with zero judgment. We all have free will and we can either decide to use that free will to our advantage and compress the time that stands between us and our dream, or we stay on the sidelines doing the same. Old shit. Remember what I said, I was on my journey for seven years, but when I had this moment, I felt an urgency to change.

And the changes I made gave me a natural conception pregnancy 12 months later. Seriously, October to October. And you know what? It was the craziest time of my life. Suffering? What was that? Like, that shit was over and Asher slipped right in. And when you look at every single one of the women you’ve heard on this podcast and you hear how long they struggled, and then after doing this work, after implementing what I teach, how quickly thereafter they finally got and stayed pregnant, it’s insane!

A simple moment can compress the space and time between you and your baby. And when you hear the stories of the women that are coming down the pipeline of this podcast, there can be no doubt that there is power in going full throttle. And interestingly enough, that’s the name of my new program. So do you want to take what I’ve shared here to the next level?

So, ask the bottom line question that I’ve posed here. Will you step up? Are you ready to stop playing small and claim what’s yours? No excuses, no victim shit. Who are you willing to become? Who do you have to let go of? What are the things that you know are holding you back on this journey? Write them down.

Bust out your journal. Listen to this again. Write it down. What are the things? Because right now, you know exactly what is going to cause you to give up on this dream. And if you don’t take that motherfucker by the horns, and tame that shit, and make it your bitch, you won’t like where you end up, my love.

Love you enough to say it. So now that I’ve shared the moment, In the next episode, I will share the decision that changed everything. I’m breaking this down bit by bit because I want you to digest it. I want you to take it on board. And you know what? I hope that what I’m sharing here scares the shit out of you.

Not from some sick, twisted desire to shake you up, but because I know personally from having done it myself and watching women all over the world do the same on the other side of that fear is a baby making breakthrough. Can’t say mama doesn’t love you. My Fearlessly Fertile Method family of programs is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months.

And say hell yes to covering their bases, mind and body, so you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret. I work with women who are committed. To success, to apply for an interview, to be considered for my programs, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there.

My methodology is help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success in this journey, baby, you got to keep it all in your strategy. Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results.

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Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.