EP202 Fast Track Your Baby: Empowerment By Full Responsibility

Want to know what will help you fast track your baby? I will break it down in this episode. I will also share a poem that truly changed everything for me, when it came not only to mindset, but helped me understand the power that WE ALL have within us. If you are serious about making THIS your year, turn this one UP, way up!

Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless, baby. Fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 202, Fast Track Your Baby, Empowerment by Full Responsibility. Woo, my loves, we are in the first full week of the brand new year. And I wanted to start us off with something that really made a difference in my own life when it was introduced to me.

Because this episode is all about fast tracking your baby. And what I mean by that when I say that is we’re not forcing, pushing, pulling. It’s really about becoming. The way that you are going to shift what happens for you on this journey because everything is happening for you. Believe it or not, it’s happening for you and smart women will make that shift and say, things are not happening to me, they are happening for me.

But the way that you truly begin to shift what shows up on this journey is by shifting the way that you see yourself. within it. And a critical piece of that is taking full responsibility for what happens on this journey. Now, there’s a huge difference between blaming yourself and taking full responsibility.

Now, when you take full responsibility, you are solution oriented. And when you’re solution oriented, you will see opportunities everywhere. You will see opportunity, you will see abundance and you will see support all around. And this is truly what I mean when I say fast track your baby. When it’s not about having more treatments or trying more diets or doing more fucking yoga.

What it’s really about is changing the common denominator on this journey, which is you. That’s really how you fast track this. And really, if you listen to every single woman’s interview who has been through my programs, who’s been on this podcast, she will get to this point in her own unique way. And that’s really what they’re talking about is finding empowerment.

By taking full responsibility, and when they did that, crazy shit starts to happen. Women who had failed IVF start getting pregnant naturally. Women who had recurrent miscarriage conceive twins naturally. Women who had repeated IVF cycles finally have an IVF cycle that works, they carry to term, and they are now mothers to healthy, happy babies.

Okay, this is what’s possible. None of this mindset shit is airy fairy or woo woo. It’s logical and linear Thoughts, beliefs, actions, results. When you change your perspective on your life changes. And when you change your perspective, your field of vision changes, and you will see things you did not see before that have been there for you the whole time, this desire that you have to be a mom, it’s in your heart because it was meant for you.

And the sooner that you really take that on and start living that way and, and assuming full responsibility for where you’re headed, not only in your life, but on this journey, I promise you, you will start to see things about you, your life, this journey, the people in your life, your work, the way you interact with the people that you care about.

Like so many of these things are going to change the abundance in your life, the opportunities in your life. It all starts with taking full responsibility. Now, you’ve heard me talk about this in many different ways, but what I’m going to be sharing with you today really zeros in on the power of personal responsibility.

Now, I want to say this again, not because I think you’re an idiot, but because saboteurs are probably kicking at some level, especially if You know, if you’re kind of in a low place on your journey, it can be hard to hear these things, but let me just say this one more time for your fucking saboteurs, there is a huge difference between assuming full responsibility for yourself and your life.

And blame. None of what I’m talking about here or will be sharing is about beating yourself up or blaming. Full responsibility puts you in a position of power, mama, okay? And there’s not a single woman who wins on this journey that did not step into that power, okay? Things are happening for you, not to you.

And the sooner you get out of the victim mentality and assume the position of creator in your life, you’re going to, it’s just, trust me on this one, okay? It matters and it changes everything. So what I’m going to be sharing with you today is called autobiography in five short chapters. Now, the great Bob Proctor brought this to my attention so many years ago, and I will be forever grateful to him for sharing this because when I heard this, it just hit the power of full responsibility and how I could fast track what I wanted in my life.

It really hit me. By assuming full responsibility, I was able to fast track so many things in my life because I stopped blocking them. I started becoming the woman I needed to be in order to call in the opportunities, and to call in the amazing health, and to call in the beating the odds. None of this happened by accident.

It was a conscious choice. And if you haven’t listened to episodes 190, 191, and 192, I strongly encourage you to do that, because I broke down all of the things that changed about me in the 12 months preceding Asher’s conception. It was everything. It so mirrors. Everything that you’ve heard from so many of my ladies that have appeared on this podcast.

So if you haven’t heard those three episodes go and listen to them as soon as we’re done here Because I think it’ll help drive this point home. You can make this year whatever you want to mama It is in your hands. I don’t give two fucks what anybody has said to you about your possibilities of having a baby, how shitty your statistics are.

You are in control. You have the ability to fast track what you want by taking full responsibility. And this beautiful poem by Portia Nelson is going to help you put that into perspective. So, without further ado, here is Autobiography in 5 Short Chapters by Portia Nelson. Chapter 1. I walk down the street.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in. I am lost. I am helpless. It isn’t my fault. It takes me forever to find a way out. Chapter 2. I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I pretend I don’t see it. I fall in again. I can’t believe I am in the same place. But it isn’t my fault.

It still takes a long time to get out. Chapter 3. I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I see it is there. I still fall in. It’s a habit. My eyes are open. I know where I am. It is my fault. I get out immediately. Chapter 4. I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.

I walk around it. Chapter 5. I walk down another street. Ah, my loves. Isn’t that glorious? You may need to listen to that a couple of times for the depth of the meaning to really set in, but this is possible. What she’s talking about here is taking responsibility for creating an entirely different experience.

When your eyes are open, when you see a problem and you stop evading it, and you take responsibility for being the solution, so many things change. You stop walking down that fucked up street. Can you see why? This truly underscores the power that we have as individuals. To not only change the results in our lives, but truly change the trajectory.

This is why mindset so often proves to be the missing link. Because you can do as much fucking yoga as you want, but if you have not changed what’s going on in your mind, it won’t fucking matter. You can eat the cleanest diet you can think of, you can get state of the art treatments, none of that shit is gonna matter.

How many physicians have you heard on this podcast, both as my clients and as experts hammer on this, that look, there is an X factor that we cannot account for on this journey. And that’s truly you. If it was just going to be diet, or it was just going to be treatment, you’d get the right treatment and never suffer again.

Or you’d eliminate gluten and BOOM! Your ass is pregnant. It’s very rarely that. So, this is the power that is available to you. And, it’s all here. It’s all here. And look, I know change is scary, and the idea of going down the different street that Portia Nelson was talking about here, it can feel overwhelming.

But it starts with understanding there is another street to walk down. So if you want to take what I’m sharing here with you truly to the next level, I want you to take some time as soon as you’re done with this. And if you’re going to take a look at Episodes 190, 191 and 192, like after you’re done with all of this, set five minutes on your timer on your phone and just write out what do you want to be different this year.

What is the different road you want to walk down? What is the exact change in behavior that you need to have so you don’t keep falling into the same fucking hole? Is it time that you finally did something different? Because here’s the deal. We are at the beginning of the year. You get to decide how you end this year.

And it all starts now. Think about it. We’re still early enough in the year for you to make some choices, do different things, get some fucking help, get into one of my fucking programs if you’re smart, so that by the end of the year you are either pregnant, Or you’ve given birth. That is still possible right now.

And the, that possibility lives in your hands, mama. So, take some time. Listen to those episodes. Do the exercise that I just gave you. Write it down. Write it down so that you have some direction that it’s not just some amorphous idea that’s floating around in your brain that you never act on. You are 70 percent more likely to act on something when you have it written down.

That is the power that you have within you now. And if you want my help in getting there, my fearlessly fertile method programs are for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months. And say hell yes to covering their bases, mind and body. I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview to be considered for one of these programs, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodology is to help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. And if you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy. Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success.

Till next time. Change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying, Hell yes!

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.