EP206 Your Best Thinking Got You “Here.” Now What?

Do you realize that your best thinking got you to where you’re at today on this journey? This isn’t a criticism, it’s a fact. If you don’t like where you stand today, I’m sharing 3 things you need to know NOW, to GTF out of that place and be back on the path to baby-making success. DO NOT miss this one!

Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, badassery, and loads of hell Yes.

For your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 206. Your best thinking got you here. Now what? Hey loves, this week we are diving into a realization that woke my ass up out of a slumber. And I’m sharing it with you in hopes it will do the same.

As we get started, I also wanted to let you know two really important things. First, that we will be opening enrollment for Fearlessly Fertile Daily on demand. Which is a groundbreaking, 100 percent self paced, self study, 30 day program that women around the world absolutely love in just a couple days.

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This program is how you will get 30 days of the deepest mindset work you’ve done to date under your belt with ease. You will love who you become in the process. Be on the lookout for your invitation. Now second, We have uploaded a powerful worksheet that goes along with episode 206. That is today’s podcast.

So if you want it, click the link in the show notes, or if you are on my list, just click the email announcing this podcast. To have it delivered straight to your inbox. Let’s make life easy and help you take what you are learning in each and every episode of this podcast to the next level. It’s just mama’s gift to you.

So click the link to download the worksheet that’s going to go with the exercise I’m going to give you in this episode. So, on y va! Your best thinking got you here, your best thinking got you here. Now for everyone, here is going to be a little different, but you have to take a second to take this in and understand what this means.

Rather than seeing it as blame for where you are on your journey, it’s actually kind of exciting. Because it means that if your best thinking got you to this place on your journey, not only is there room for improvement, but You have the power to get where you want to go if you’re willing to change your thinking.

Do you see that? Think about it. You had to hold certain ideas and beliefs to get here. Even if you don’t like here, they were, all of this started in your head. Your beliefs and ideas about what was possible for you on this journey. It all started in your brain. So, getting to the next place, Meaning, closer to success is available to you if you’re willing to change the way you think.

Alright? This is really important because some of us, we think that we are where we are because we’re just unlucky. Nah, nah, there’s no such thing as luck on this journey. It’s about what you believe. Do you believe what other people are telling you or do you believe what’s in your heart? Fascinating thing to consider.

Here’s why what I’m sharing with you this week matters. There is a point when we all have to quit kidding ourselves that we got this shit figured out and see the role we have in our own limitations and failures. Because telling ourselves, I just, I got this, and never completely re evaluating the thoughts and beliefs that help us get here, it’s just foolish.

The sooner that we do that, the sooner that we give ourselves an opportunity to really look at our own role in this, the sooner we can open our hearts to a different way of thinking, the sooner we can get the fuck out of our own way and start winning. If your best thinking got you to this place on this journey, just imagine Where you could be if you’re thinking got better.

This is true even if you think you’re in a fairly decent place on your journey today. It. Can. Be. Better. None of this is about perfectionism. It’s about wisdom. And some fucking efficiency. I understand that for some of us, the idea that our best thinking landed us in a ditch on this journey is a blow to the old E.

G. O. Ego! Ego! And you know what? Good! Good! I’m glad that if you are in a place you don’t want to be on this journey that you can become aware of it! And be part of the solution in getting out of it! Look, this topic isn’t easy because nobody, nobody! body. Wants to think they have a role in their own quote unquote failure, but it’s true, and you can’t snowflake your way out of this.

At least not if you’re serious about being a mom. There’s never been a more important time for you to take responsibility and do the self reflection that’ll put you in the winner’s circle. Seriously, there’s no participation prize for being on this journey, baby. I’m sorry. There’s just, there’s no second place.

You either become a mom or you don’t. Where you land in that is up to you and the woman you are willing to become. In order to get there. I’m giving it to you straight. So that you can send me your fuckin p stick. And, and we can both coo over your baby moon pics. There’s nothing I want more for you. Fuck!

I know what that’s like! And that’s why I want it for you. That’s why I’m not gonna sugarcoat this shit. This is why I’m gonna be barkin in your ear. Pushing you to something better. Than circling the drain in self pity that isn’t gonna get you shit! I didn’t have anyone in my life speaking to me in this exact way.

So I’m doing for you, what I wish was there for me. There’s more than enough people out there willing to feel sorry for you, but you don’t need that shit from me. In fact, if you want that, this is definitely not the podcast for you! I love you and you can go and be free, baby! You don’t have to listen to this until you’re really ready to be successful.

I show up each and every week for the women who get knocked down and choose to get the fuck up, even if they don’t quite know how. I’m that person in the last hundred yards of your marathon running alongside you, reminding you of who you really are and who you were born to be. That’s not for everyone, because not everyone wants to win.

For those that do, my darling woman, I’m here for you. So let’s talk about what you need to know if you want to get beyond where your best thinking got you. Okay, number one, you want to know what’s the truth about here, right? At the very beginning of this podcast, I said, your very best thinking got you here.

So what’s the truth about here? Where are you truly on this journey? Seriously, when was the last time you took a step back and were honest about how things were going? I’m not talking about sitting and feeling sorry for yourself. I’m talking about taking some time. To consider where you are compared to where you actually want to be on this journey.

This is not to make you feel bad or shame you. Simply awareness. Like, look at this objectively. Now, be careful here, because I said look at this objectively, and a lot of people think that being objective means being fucking negative. No! It’s being able to see both sides of it, the good and the alleged bad.

I like to see everything as being good, even the alleged bad shit, because actually the alleged bad shit is just nudging you in the right direction. Right? Are you doing the same old shit you were doing last year, just hoping for things to change? Right? So, number one, what’s the truth about here? Okay? The second thing you gotta know is what thinking is keeping you stuck here?

Right? What thinking is keeping you stuck here? I’m serious. You have thoughts swirling around in that beautiful brain right now that are stopping you from moving forward. What are they? Nobody is physically preventing you from being a mom, and no one is psychologically stopping you from being a mom either.

The only person putting any limitations on you is you. You might be saying, Rozanne, I’m 45, that’s too old. Okay, I will see you’re 45, but I will raise you. Do you have any idea how many 45 year old women gave birth today? Today, on a planet of almost 8 billion people, do you have any fucking clue how many 45 year old women or older gave birth today?

Some estimates say that there are approximately 385, 000 people born a day. I’d be willing to bet that there are at least 500 women your age that gave birth today. Think about that. There could be 500 other women your age giving birth today. Because they weren’t telling themselves they were too fucking old.

They just did what it took to have this baby. 500. That’s not bad. That’s a good company. That means it is more than possible if 500 other women approximately did that today. You think you might be able to do it? May as well bet on you. Now the third thing I want you to consider, and that you really should know, is hey, you gotta be ready to knock down the house of cards.

The house of cards in your mind. You see, our limiting beliefs are indeed like a house of cards, that strangely we guard jealously. It’s super crazy when you get down to it. We are so protective of our limitations that we make the people trying to help us seem like the bad guys. People have accused me of blaming the victim, not being compassionate, or that shit’s being easy for me because I have my son.

And I’m thinking to myself, What the fuck are you talking about? How is seeing people as victims compassionate? Is pity compassionate? Really? I come from the perspective that everyone has value and is valuable. And the last thing they need from anyone is self righteous pity. Fuck that. Nah, bruh. I see every woman as having the innate god given ability to be creative, resourceful, and whole.

Pity is just another way for people to feel better about themselves, wrapped in the robes of their judgment. Nah, nah, nah, nah. I prefer, Look, I hear you doll. Now let’s go do blank. Because you gotta keep moving forward on this journey. You gotta keep moving forward if you have any desire to succeed. And if you didn’t listen to last week’s episode, I strongly encourage you to do so.

These two episodes together are quite fascinating. In the end, if you want to get past your limits, you have to be willing to crush the paradigm that keeps you stuck in them. Plain and simple. Are you willing to choose your baby over your entirely made up limitations? Now if that doesn’t hit you in the heart, I don’t know what will.

Your best thinking got you here, mama. This isn’t blame. This is a roadmap to something better. A chance to break out of the matrix of your own limited thinking. You don’t have to be confined by statistics, other people’s judgments, or your past. Every woman you’ve heard on this podcast, and will hear on this podcast, brought down her house of cards.

You can too. They’re real fucking flimsy, and they are held up by bullshit. You can succeed this year, mama. You can you can you can if you want my help There’s two things to keep in mind one enrollment with some really cool bonuses that are gonna be available starting in a couple days Enrollment is gonna be open for my beloved self study program fearlessly fertile on demand You’re gonna want to jump on that if you like the self study Option, be on the lookout for your invitation.

If you want to jump into the deep end of the pool with me live and be in one of my signature programs, my Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say hell yes to covering their faces, mind, and body so you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret.

I work with badass bitches who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com And apply for an interview there. My methodologies help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy.

Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success. And I got to tell you, doll, I have so much love and, and respect and admiration for you being on this journey. Take these lessons and run with them. Decide that you’re going to take the next steps. Decide that this is going to be your year. Till next time.

Change your mindset. Change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.