EP252 Close Out 2023 With Confidence

These are the final days of 2023, Mama! Want to use them like a woman who is going to create massive success on her journey in the coming year? Do the exercise I share in this episode…you will be so glad you did. 2024 can 100% be your year!


Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43 despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 252. Close out 2023 with confidence. Jingle bells, Batman smells, Robin laid an egg, and the Joker does ballet. This is Zasher. Merry Christmas. Happy New Year. Have a good time. Oh my gosh, loves!

I just love my boy! I love my boy! And I gotta tell ya, I cannot wait for every single one of you listening to have goofy moments like that with your kids! Now, part of getting to that place where you will have those goofy moments with your children comes from taking time, especially right now. Today is Christmas Day when this comes out, and whether you celebrate or not, it’s a really beautiful time to lean in and prepare yourself for what’s to come in the new year.

I mean, From between Christmas and New Year’s Eve. It’s it’s just a magical time. And so I wanted to give you something really positive, concrete and confidence inspiring so that in this magical time, this window between Christmas and New Year’s, that You are directing your attention to things that are actually going to move you forward in the new year.

Now, this will apply whether you are, you know, you just found out you’re pregnant, you’re in early pregnancy, maybe you’re second trimester, or getting ready to pop, like so many of my ladies are. Because Look, at every stage in our lives and on this journey, we have an opportunity to look at the past from a perspective of gratitude, truly.

Rather than the fallback, untrained mind position of looking at the past with Anger. Rage. Victimhood. Blame. And so many other, you know, I’m not saying that these emotions are not valid. Of course they’re valid. But when you take up residence in those places, they’re counterproductive. And one of the other mistakes that we make when it comes to looking at our past Is we will dig up the ancient past if you notice what I’m talking about here is closing out 2023 with confidence by looking at the events of 2023 and seeing how they can be used to build your confidence.

We’re looking at the recent past. I don’t think that. It makes a whole lot of sense to be reaching back to shit that went on four years, 10 years, 15 years ago, old wounds, old hurts, because you’re not that same person. You’re actually not the same person today that you were when you started 2023. So the wiser move Is to look at the recent past, because the recent past is more of a reflection of who you actually are than the person you were 10 years ago, 15 years ago.

So, the objective in our time together today Is to have you look back on 2023 with a perspective of an open heart, ready to learn, ready to find the gifts and to leave the rest behind. And when you do that, I think that you’re going to find that there was far more good, far more growth, far more generosity, far more expansion.

Far more opportunities to become better, to be, do, and have more than you actually think. It’s a lot easier because we have a negativity bias, I think, when it comes to this journey, because we hear so much. About the shit that goes wrong. We hear far more about what goes wrong than goes, right? Which is why I love that my podcast and everything that I share here is truly about Showing you a constellation of other possibilities because it’s a hell of a lot easier to find the negative shit You will have 20 people immediately jump in with some shit story that they want to share Then you will find people that are willing to have the courage to say, Actually, this was a great opportunity for me to learn, or I’m becoming different because of this in the best possible way.

Yeah, things didn’t go quite the way that I expected, but I’m better for it, and I know something far better is coming for me, and I’m not leaving without my baby. Okay, that’s really what makes the Fearlessly Fertile community very distinct. And it’s a gift. So if you want to reap the confidence that you can have as a result of what happened over the course of 2023, you are going to make a list.

What are all the things that maybe didn’t go quite the way that you wanted them to, but that you’re sure as hell happy for? Even if that is a wild departure from what you would normally do. In fact, the more wild departure you can take with your recent history, the better. Because it’s simply an old pattern to go back and look at everything as a disappointment.

Or a negative when you stop and make a list of the things that you have learned, the experiences that have helped you deepen your resilience and really look back on what occurred in 2023 with some gratitude, some emotional maturity, some faith. And a real love for your vision for this family that you’re building this family that you with all of your heart are going to call in in 2024, you will create confidence within yourself, this knowing that number one, you don’t give up on yourself.

Number two, you are far more resilient than you think. And number three, you are showing yourself that, Hey, hey, mofos, I can do hard shit. And I can continue to do hard shit to get to where I want to be. Because that’s what really smart women are doing right now. Instead of drowning their sorrows in a martini, or, uh, hiding out from their lives for the next week, just hoping things miraculously change January 1st, Smart women are going to take the bull by the horns.

They’re going to close out 2023 with confidence and do what I have described here. And in addition to doing what I’ve described here, they’re coming up with a plan. And not some loose plan, they’re coming up with a plan that they are going to give their word to themselves and follow through on. I think that there is an average, I think they say that most people give up on their New Year’s resolutions in 14 days.

And then there’s like some other descending percentage of people that can keep them three weeks and some tiny percentage that make it past a month. When you’re serious about creating what you say you want to create, your word has to be gold. It has to be like oak. It has to be something that you don’t trade on.

It is a hundred percent something that you stand by. Now, that doesn’t mean that there aren’t deviations, right, because sometimes we have to change things up a little bit, but the confidence that you have Developed through doing the exercise that I’ve described here by looking back to your recent past.

Stop looking at the distant past. Nothing there for you. Okay, but in the recent past, you can see all of the things that I’ve pointed out. The resilience, the growth, the development, the opportunities, the growth in faith. I mean, there’s just, it’s such a rich place to be looking and there are going to be gems that you can put in your pocket.

As you move forward in 2024, but when you do that, you can say, you know what? Look, I actually I’m going to do this for me. I have some tools here. I may not have all of them, but I’m going to get them and I’m going to close out this year with confidence and an expectation to expect. in 2024. So take some time, my loves, in this just magical season, this beautiful portal that we’re walking into between Christmas and New Year’s, to really set yourself straight, to really get your eyes focused on what you want to create.

In 2024. Now, I also want to let you know that by popular demand, we are opening the doors. We are reopening the doors to fearlessly fertile, full throttle for just a couple days. Uh, we got a lot of messages from women who Missed out on the launch in November and are coming to their senses and realize, you know what, I actually do want to use the first 90 days of 2024 wisely.

I do want the structure, the consistency in the community that comes along with it. With having women around me having a structured program that has worked for so many women, we’ve been putting out snippets of, uh, some of the interviews that women did during the four day challenge I did in November, and the stories are just miraculous, so I want to honor that request.

Uh, for the women that are reaching out for that. So just for a few days, uh, between Christmas and New Year’s, you will be able to enroll in Full Throttle. And the bonus that you’ll get is access to our amazing, super crazy, awesome telegram group. It’s a secret group nobody else can get into, but the ladies who are part of Full Throttle.

Hop to it. If you did not create the results that you wanted in 2023 and upon reflection, you know, you want to create something bigger, something wilder. You want the structure, consistency, and community that comes with a proven system, a proven program that has helped women all over the world. We would love to have you in full throttle.

So check the link in the show notes here, and you’ll be getting an email about this, but once the doors are closed to full throttle. They are closed. So my love, I hope that you have a wonderful holiday week between Christmas and New Year’s, and I really hope that you are willing to make a promise to yourself a promise that 2024 is going to be something completely different.

It’s going to be a year of you making the commitment to yourself on a daily basis that you will not give up on yourself that you will continue to move forward. You will be fearless. And don’t you dare forget, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year.

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Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.