EP253 Serious About Success Question #1

Happy New Year! If 2023 didn’t go exactly as you had planned, this 3-part series is going to help you shake sh*t up, so you don’t repeat last year’s disappointments. If you aren’t ALL IN for a baby in 2024, skip this series. We start off with a question that is probably going to scare you. It’s high flame sh*t. Buckle up.


Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 253. Serious about success. Question number one. Happy New Year, my loves! Woo! It is so good to welcome you into the new year in this way. I just love the beginning of the new year. It’s such a powerful time with so much good energy.

You know, we’re coming off the end of 2023, stepping boldly into 2024. And I just love thinking about what’s to come in the new year. There’s so much possibility, you know, there’s so much we learned from 2023, the good, the bad, the ugly, the disappointing, the miserable, and the fucking awesome, right? We’ve had a range of so many different experiences in the past year that we have a chance right here, right now, to start this brand new year off with the right focus.

And this is why I designed this three part series, the Serious About Success question series, in the way that I have. I’m serious about helping women achieve success on this journey, and if you’re serious about having a baby, These are going to be questions that you are going to want to ask. And I get that at some level, these questions are going to trigger you.

But here’s a newsflash. If you’re serious about success on this journey, you can’t afford to be a fucking snowflake. You gotta buck up, sister, put on your big girl panties, and get your shit in the ring. If 2023 did not go the way that you anticipated, it’s time to take a good, hard look at the way you’re going about this journey.

None of this is to make you wrong, because in the end, you have free will, you have the ability at any given time to pivot, you get to change how you think, believe, and take action on this journey, and in fact, you can do it in a way that guarantees your success, this is a fact, if you doubt this, go back and listen to it.

250 plus episodes of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, and zero in on the Miracle Mama success stories. Okay, the proof is in the pudding, we have the receipts, and if you’re serious about making 2024 your year, the time to unfuck shit. Is now this is also the perfect times for me to make two really important announcements.

Number one, my goal over the next 10 years is to have 100, 000 fearlessly fertile babies born. You heard that right. My intention is from my work through my programs, my books. My podcast and all of that goodness, all of the work that my team and I are putting out every single week from all that work for there to be 100, 000 fearlessly fertile babies born.

Okay, that is my personal goal. That is the calling on my heart because you know what? There’s nothing more beautiful than watching women live their truth. And live their dream and acknowledging that the desire in their heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for them. There has been nothing more satisfying in my professional life than that.

So my commitment to the women that I serve is 100, 000 babies. And I couldn’t be more fucking excited. Now, The second announcement that I’m gonna make is kind of sort of related, but fearlessly fertile is going on a world tour. That’s right. My team and I are gonna be touring the world. We’re going to put boots on the ground to put the fearlessly fertile message out into the world.

So chances are we are going to be stopping in a town near you, so you’re gonna be getting some information as we solidify dates. Our plan is to tour the United States Europe. Australia, New Zealand, and our neighbors to the north, Canada. So be on the lookout for those announcements, and we’re going to put together a waiting list because we’re actually showing up in person.

You’ll have the chance to meet me, meet the team, and we’re also making a documentary of all of this. So we’ve got a lot of really awesome things planned for 2024 in the fearlessly fertile amazingness. And you will have a chance to be part of it if you choose. So that being said, let’s dive into serious about success question number one.

Now, this is a question that I know that when I ask it, you’re going to want to answer it. Like, you’re going to have a knee jerk reaction to answering it. But I want you to take a step back. Okay? So here’s the question. How bad do you want it? How bad do you want this baby? Now, you might be thinking to yourself, Roseanne, this is a fucking stupid question.

I’ve been on every diet, treatment, lotion, potion, pill, powder, bullshit thing that has been thrown at me. I have traveled miles and miles and miles to get to where I needed to go. And all of this good stuff, you know, we’ve all endured different things that show up on our journey, but at the same time, lurking in the dark reaches of your subconscious mind as a stopping strategy.

A stopping strategy, a sabotage pattern that will cause you to give up on your dream. And most of the time, it’s some variation of you getting uncomfortable. So, let me ask you again. How bad do you want it? We all have certain triggers that cause us to say, Ooh, shit, you know, maybe I don’t want this this badly, right?

And for everyone it’s going to be different, but you better know yours. And more importantly, you’ve got to come face to face with the truth about how bad you want a baby, because here’s the thing. If you are still stuck in the fucking nonsense of complaining and bitching about money and what it takes to get the treatment.

Do the diets, get the acupuncture, get the coaching and all of the other things that when you’re struggling with fertility That you’re fucking smart to be considering and investing in if you’re still complaining about that You have got to ask yourself this simple question. How bad do you want it? How bad do you want it?

You know, there are people that are getting up at 3 o’clock in the morning to go to some crazy physical labor job because they want success and they want prosperity bad enough to get fucking uncomfortable, right? Think about the hubris. That goes into saying, well, that makes me uncomfortable or I’m going to have to stretch or I’m going to have to do something new.

And wow, you know, why do I have to do that? You know, why do I have to learn new shit to get to where I want to go? How bad do you want it? How bad do you want this baby? And I’m coming at you very directly right now. Because you got to wake up, mama. You got to fucking wake up. If you are not creating the results.

That you want in your life, the only person that is causing that is you. And I say that from a place of love. I say this with the fire of a woman that has helped women from ages 28 to fucking 52 get and stay pregnant. And the thing that just fucking drives me crazy about the money excuse and the time excuse and all of that is it’s all fucking made up.

And it comes from a victim mindset. That somebody owes you something. That it shouldn’t cost you anything to have the things that you care about. Just listen to that. It shouldn’t cost me anything to have the life that I want. How fucking entitled is that? It’s fucking nuts. So ask yourself, and look, hey, I’ve got compassion for it because I fucking did it, trust me, I was the biggest frickin loser when it came to excuses.

When I was in my victimhood, holy fuck. The excuses And the, you know, my insurance should pay for this. You know, garbage was out the fucking, like, it was cuckoo birds. Like, it was just fucking cuckoo. The degree to which I was a victim. But when I woke up to that and I saw how it was seriously shooting myself in the foot, putting artificial stops on my progress.

It was mind blowing, in fact, it was terrifying, because if I didn’t get control of that, I would have just straight up given up. And because I didn’t give up, my son’s gonna be turning seven. In a few months, okay? And, you know, and all of the pee sticks and baby announcements that I get on the regular from women consistently say, I’m so glad I didn’t give up.

And, you know, and a word to the wise, if you are still making excuses about money, or time, or other people, my husband won’t let me, my partner won’t let me, and all that other garbage you hear me railing about, you have to realize that nobody is responsible for your happiness but you. It’s on you. You are the one that’s following that nonsense.

You are the one that’s allowing that to control your life, and you have to get smarter than that. So let me ask you the question again. How bad do you want it? And even if what I have said here kind of sets you off and you’ve got all these excuses, you’re all mad at me, maybe you’re throwing your phone across the room, and you’re like, I’m gonna fucking give her a terrible review, I’m never listening to this podcast again.

Like. Hey, as a grown ass woman, you can do whatever the fuck you want, but I’m telling you straight up, from the trenches. Thousands of women deep, almost 10 years of doing this. How bad do you want it? The only person that is going to stop you from having this baby is you, and you’ve got to want this baby bad enough to get over whatever nonsense is getting in your way.

And all of that. Starts with mindset because here’s the deal. If you’re doing all the physical things and you’re still not getting a result, there is a gaping hole in your strategy. The mind and the body work together and look, I get it. It sounds easier to just take a pill or go do a treatment, but here’s the thing.

You can’t out supplement or out treat a shitty mindset. It’s gonna bite your ass. If you have any doubt about that, go listen to the podcast that, or actually the Instagram live that I did with Dr. Zahir Murhi. Fucking hilarious. One of the best in the business. Telling you that mindset is half the battle.

So, you, but see, even if like, I don’t care if you had ten doctors telling you that. You know that! You know inside of you, okay, that something isn’t right with your mindset, okay? I was just reading a study, I think it came out, it came out of somewhere in Boston, like some fertility study that I read. The researchers were in Boston.

And they were talking about how fertility patients tend to know, like, and they tend to believe that their mind has something to do with some of this. But the question is, ultimately, what do you do about it? Right? Strangely, comes back to the question of how bad do you want it? Do you want it bad enough?

Do you want this baby bad enough to take care of your mind and body in a way that’s actually going to set you up for success? So. I’ll say it again. The serious about success question number one is how bad do you want it? And there’s no judgment, okay? If you’re in a place where you’re like, well I don’t want it bad enough to have to grow.

Okay, great. There’s nothing wrong with that. Awesome. Knock yourself out. You have an absolute right to live your life in any way you wish. But here’s where things are, you know, where you gotta take some fucking responsibility. Because if you know that you have a stopping strategy, And that stopping strategy is money, time, other people, whatever that happens to be for you, then you don’t get to blame anybody.

You really don’t. You don’t get to blame your doctor. You don’t get to blame other people. It’s you. Because you know you have a stopping strategy, but it’s up to you to do something about it. But if you choose not to, again, no judgment, but it is your responsibility. And at the end of the day, our happiness comes down to Our willingness to go out and get the things that make us fucking happy, okay?

And life is full of uncertainty. We don’t have any idea when the time your baby’s gonna get here is gonna be. We have no clue. We also don’t know how your baby’s gonna get here. There are many different ways that this baby can show up in your life, but if you’re fucking serious about having a baby, you’ll figure it out.

So, that being said. Get serious and get clear about how bad you want it. And if you’re serious about success in 2024, my fearlessly fertile method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say, hell yes, to covering their bases, mind and body. And because we’re starting off a new year and I want to be really clear, I want to be Like crystal about the fact that I only work with women that are committed to success.

So if you’re a person that is more committed to your excuses than your success, and having a baby is more like, That’ll be nice if we did, but I don’t really care if we do or not. Please don’t apply for this. I’m only looking to work with women that are like, Fuck yeah, I’m having this baby, nothing’s getting in my way, but I actually don’t quite know how to get there when it comes to the mindset piece and I feel like I’m fucking up and Roseanne, will you help me?

Okay? Those are the women. I will give my heart to in this work. These are the women that you will hear on the podcast throughout 2024, the gangster mama bears that are not leaving without their baby. And if you want to be one of them and you are committed to doing the work. You’re not gonna make excuses and you’re fuck yeah for this baby.

Go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodology is help women around the world make their mom dreams come true and their results speak for themselves. Four highlight reels deep, baby. Go check it out on Instagram. Because here’s the deal. If you don’t have a mindset for success in this journey, you’ve got a gaping hole in your strategy.

You have an opportunity to fix that shit. Quit feeling like a victim. And go straight to Momma Town. Happy New Year, baby. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you.

When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.