EP44 Welcoming The New Year Wisely

Let’s prepare you to start 2020 like the Fearless Mama-To-Be you are. I will walk you through a journey-changing exercise that will empower you to welcome 2020 wisely and say goodbye to 2019 with grace. If you want to get a sense of how women who beat the odds think, don’t miss this! xoxo

Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.

I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby. Fearlessly Fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, episode 44, welcoming the new year wisely.

Loves, I am absolutely delighted that for the past two episodes, I have come to you on the eve of a celebration. This time, it’s Welcoming 2020. Not only is this a new year, it’s a new decade. Let that sink in. It’s a whole new decade, mama. It’s a span of ten years in our lives that can be so full of promise.

And, as my beloved Tony Robbins says, We often overestimate what we can get done in one year and underestimate what we can do in ten. The message in that is life, like this journey, is a process. And frankly, our estimation of time and when things, quote unquote, should happen is kind of bullshit. At best, most of us are guessing, and in the end, the most awesome of miracles come in divine time.

It isn’t until we look back that we can see just how divine that timing was. That being said, I want to spend a few minutes helping you set yourself up for welcoming the new year wisely. The lazy temptation is to look back on 2019 with an eye for what you lost, what didn’t happen, or the struggle. I want you to be smarter than that.

I want you to think about why you love 2019. That is what a woman who beats the odds is thinking. That’s where she puts her precious energy. What can you love about this year that is coming to a close? This is an incredibly important and intelligent question to ask, because a wise woman is always harvesting lessons.

From her peaks, valleys, and everywhere in between. Everything that presented itself to you this year was a gift. If you’re willing to see it that way. The up moments show how good life can be. The down moments can remind you of your resilience. The stuff in between can be a time of preparation and equilibrium.

It’s all good. None of this stands for the proposition that pain isn’t painful or that we should somehow numb out the reality that we have hurts in this life. Not at all. It is an invitation, however, to get out of the sad sack victimhood that many people choose to stay in when hardship or pain shows up.

To be clear about the other end of the spectrum, This is not a commercial for seeking out pain just for the sake of having pain. Because masochism or martyrdom is somehow good for you. Fuck that. No one needs that. All of this is simply about having a healthy appreciation for everything that has shown up in your life in 2019.

Let me give you some examples. What can you love about a friend turning their back on you? How can you love that an IVF cycle was cancelled? What is the silver lining you can find in a loss? How do you choose to look back on the investments you’ve made in your dreams this year? What do you love about who you are becoming?

What super important permission did you give yourself this year that was long overdue? How are you more visible to yourself and others on this journey? Who are you becoming in your relationships? Have you allowed yourself to own your hell yes’s and no’s? What are you most proud of? And what do you love about 2019?

With these examples as your backdrop, make a list of 25 things you love about 2019. If you’re a member of my community, you were emailed your very own What I Love About 2019 fillable e journal on New Year’s Eve morning, this morning, as my gift. If you did not get one, reach out to my team at info at from maybe to baby dot com and ask them nicely for one.

They work really hard and they are absolutely amazing. I have instructed them that requests that do not begin with Happy New Year are to be ignored. So just remember that. When your list of 25 is complete, my love, take a few minutes to reflect on what you wrote. It takes strength, emotional maturity, and a big heart to focus on the gifts we are given in this life, even when at first they look like a giant shit sandwich.

If you can’t come up with 25 things you love about 2019, take a moment to consider, what’s the belief that’s blocking you from making that list? Chances are there’s a saboteur standing in the way, and trust me, this list isn’t the only place it’s blocking you. It just may be one of the biggies that’s separating you from what you truly desire.

I’m teaching you this because when you develop this muscle, you can literally rewire the neuropathway in your brain that goes from zero to miserable when waters get rough or shit is just downright uncomfortable and uncertain. Dominion over your stories is how you create the kind of unshakable confidence and certainty Every woman craves on this journey.

When you can focus on love and appreciation, while at the same time owning the whole truth about your circumstances, you put yourself on the path to personal mastery. Just think about the way you can live your journey from that place, and the kind of amazing mom magic you will create with your baby.

From that perspective, this isn’t just goody two shoes bullshit. This is genius strategy for your journey and this life. My prayer and intention for you is that this teaching will help you see yourself and your journey in a whole new way that will form the foundation upon which you make 2020 your best year ever.

Woman, I believe with my whole heart. That amazing things are in store for you. Claim it. Own it. Live it. If you have to, borrow a cup of my faith. I’ve got plenty of it. Happy New Year, gorgeous! Love you. My darling, if you are ready to have me by your side so you can think, believe, and take action like a woman who succeeds on this journey and not look back on it with regret, let’s do this.

Remember, thoughts, beliefs, actions, results. Everything starts as a thought, my darling. My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is revolutionary, and it is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months. Not only is that their intention, they say hell yes to covering their bases, mind and body. I work with women who know what they want and execute, not make excuses.

If that’s you to apply for your interview, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for your interview with me. My methodology has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, love, you’ve got a gaping hole in your strategy.

Let’s fix that shit and set you up for making 2020 your best year ever on this journey. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast. Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you.

When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.