EP46 Fertility Success Principle #4

Learn the principle that’s behind sudden, dramatic advances and abrupt POSITIVE changes on your journey, so you can get off the hamster wheel of getting the “same old” results. Applying it is a key aspect of being the woman who defies statistics and beats the odds. Leap baby, leap!

Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.

I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby. Fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, episode 46.

Fertility Success Principle number four, The Quantum Leap. Hey mama, this week we are going to pick back up on a series of episodes that I have planned for you on fertility success principles. Having beaten the odds on my own fertility journey despite a ridiculous history of failure, advanced maternal age, and having no reason on paper to believe that I could actually get to this place, It has become a bit of a healthy obsession of mine to study what makes women truly successful on this journey.

While, indeed, every woman’s journey is different, there is no question that there is a through line, shared characteristics that unite every woman I have gotten to know who has beaten the odds, regardless of diagnosis, age, profession, where she is in the world, culture, language, you name it. What I’ve learned over 10 plus years of study and experience, I teach to my lovably type A control freaky top of their professional game make no excuses refuse to be a victim ladies.

And I have the absolute thrill of watching them apply what they learn and create their own outstanding successes. I literally have a VIP front row seat on a daily basis to fertility success. It makes me giddy to receive so many pregnancy announcements, ultrasound photos, and insanely fucking cute bump pics.

They make me do funky chicken dance moves in my office. I love it when my ladies punch fear in the face, take a stand for truth, bet on themselves, and give the limitations people love to throw in their faces. The finger. You’ve heard me say this before and I will continue to say it because it’s fucking true.

Success leaves clues. If you desire success, the equation is simple. Do what successful people do. If you don’t know what to do, get a mentor who has created the success you desire, has proven they have helped other people create that success, and have them teach you what they did. I know one that kicks some righteous ass.

No smart woman wastes her time trying to reinvent the wheel. With that being said, the success principle I want to share with you today is one that I am certain we don’t spend a ton of time thinking about on this journey. And that is the quantum leap. Merriam Webster’s online dictionary defines a quantum leap as an abrupt change, sudden increase, or dramatic advance.

With increase and advance being critical aspects of that definition, it should be plain as day that quantum leaps are fucking awesome. Used in a sentence, it might sound like this. Since learning to think, believe, and take action like a woman who succeeds on this journey, I have taken quantum leaps toward my fertility success.

If you want to create success on this journey, baby, you gotta be down with this taking quantum leaps shit. Let me be clear about that. We aren’t talking about baby steps. We are talking about knock down, drag out, white knuckled, sweaty palm, can’t see the net, I can’t believe I’m fucking doing this, people are gonna think I’m crazy, scary as fuck, full body, hell yes leaps!

That is a quantum leap. Quantum leaps are not reckless or foolish, from the standpoint that they are somehow out of alignment with your values as an intelligent human being, or that they represent something so patently wrong for you, that your soul is screaming, Fuck no! They are indeed out of your comfort zone, but in your heart you know they are oh so right.

The term quantum leap comes from quantum physics, which, since its discovery, has turned many aspects of Cartesian and Newtonian physics on its ear. Quantum physics is causing scientists to have to rethink many scientific theories we once thought were absolutely untouchable, incontrovertible. Some of the stuff we thought were bedrock, irrefutable scientific truths about time, space, and the universe.

And human consciousness are being called into question. It’s fucking awesome! In plain English, that’s like saying, Hey, some of the shit that we thought was true actually isn’t! This demonstrates a very important reality, and that is quit worshipping at the altar of science, because science is ever evolving.

That is the inherent nature of it. Quit treating it as if it’s the end all be all, some static thing written on a clay tablet. The reality is, these days, there are some things that were once cast off as terminal that are now being treated in an outpatient setting. Think about it, it wasn’t that long ago that we thought disease could be cured with a good bleeding and leeches.

We laugh about how barbaric and ridiculous that was, but sister, that wasn’t that ago. Up until a few decades ago, we also didn’t think smoking was harmful. All of that shit at one point in time was considered hard science. Condescending men in lab coats told us it was okay. Yikes. Okay, so quantum leaps are about taking action that may defy what others would call common sense or what is good science.

It is 100 percent in alignment with your heart. It’s about not being confined by limits that are, at best, guesses today. That’s why I have so much compassion when I hear women parrot statistics to me as if they’re irrefutable truth. But it breaks my heart to see women trapped in that shit. Because our notions about what the limits of what’s possible are, are being humbled on the regular.

This reality is why I challenge you in the way that I do. Every single woman you have heard on this podcast demanded her quantum leap. She wasn’t down with business as usual. She wasn’t content with the mousy, incremental changes we get lulled into thinking we should be happy with. In each of their wonderfully unique ways.

Each of these women said, No, motherfuckers, this is mine, I’m doing this. Aisha, Jennifer, Jen, Dr. Lucy, Kate, Tracy, Beth, Catherine, and so many more that you’re gonna hear from, they weren’t content with the 10 or 20 percent better. They demanded full scale victory. From where they stood, that would require nothing short of a quantum leap.

To the outside world, none of this would make sense. But that underestimates the power of a woman making a quantum leap. In each case, within a relatively short period of time after flipping the switch and applying what I taught them, they made the seemingly impossible possible. So my darling, take a look at the way you’re living your journey today.

Not from a place of judgment, from a place of loving commitment to your dreams. Are you living it in a way that makes you available for quantum leaps? Here are things to consider when you’re trying to evaluate whether or not you might be blocking your quantum leap. Are you just squeaking by because you’re too afraid to do what you really want to do?

Are you letting other people’s opinions dictate your course? Are you subordinating what you know in your fucking soul to be true just because you don’t want to make waves? Are you hiding your truth from your partner? Are you treating yourself like a child when it comes to money? Are you choosing convention over your god given never wrong intuition?

Are you even open to your intuition? Are you playing so painfully small that your 80 year old self would look back on this chapter in your life and shake her head in disgust? Just keeping shit real. Are you open to receiving sudden increase or dramatic advances on this journey? Now, you might be thinking to yourself, Hell yes, Roseanne, of course I am!

No, no, no, no, no, no, no. No, no, no, no, no, no. Not so fast. That might sound like a stupid question, but if you are blocking your quantum leap because you feed yourself a line of bullshit about your age, How many failures you’ve had, money, investing in yourself, what other people think, beating yourself up over quote unquote mistakes, how the statistics are what really matter, getting help, getting mentorship, and dismissing the desires of your heart as just shit that would be nice to have.

I’m gonna love you enough to tell you you’re fucked, baby. Bringing your dreams to fruition requires your buy in. Every saboteur story you perpetuate is creating a concrete wall between you and what you want. It’s a recipe for self sabotage. Every one of those women you’ve heard on this podcast made a decision to go for her quantum leap.

So let me ask you the question again Are you thinking believing and taking action on this journey in a way that makes you available for quantum leaps? Are the doors actually open? I’m telling you right now that what you have heard from the women on this podcast exists in you baby today As you listen to this you simply need to learn how to unleash her You’ve got to give yourself permission to stop tiptoeing around what you want and fucking leap the bigger the better Because I can tell you straight up right now, the more those women double down, the bigger the payoff.

Decide you are gonna make a quantum leap. And I gotta tell you, love, one of the coolest things ever about quantum leaps is they look, feel, sound, smell, and just behave totally different than what we’re used to. So if you’re out of your comfort zone, you know you’re in quantum leap territory! Ha ha ha!

Alright, so here’s an exercise to really help you get this in your bones. Leap, baby, leap. The bigger, the fucking better. What the hell do you have to lose? The bigger risk is not leaping. Do you really want to look back on your life as you lay dying, wondering what your life could have been? Or do you want to have the peaceful fuck yeah smile people envy because you can meet your maker knowing you didn’t let them down?

You took up the assignment of being you and you gave this precious life and your family that you know you desire in your heart, you gave it your all. Apply the Fertility Success Principle of the Quantum Leap. Quit being content with the incremental, boring as fuck, tiny steps when you know Damn well, there’s something inside of you dying to leap.

Take a look at where you’re at on this journey. Pick one area in which you know you need to leap. Take a massive step of your own choosing in that direction, my darling. The next thing I want you to do is text the link to this podcast episode to someone you know could benefit from it. Screenshot this episode and put it in your Facebook or Insta story tagging me.

Let’s get the word out, my darling. And if your quantum leap is to start thinking, believing, and taking action like the smartest fuck woman who beats the odds, I can help. Women who beat the odds on this journey show up to it mind and body. Does it make any sense to be doing every cutting edge treatment, diet, lotion, and potion under the sun with fear, negativity, doubt, toxic stress, and self sabotage operating in the background, undermining your heroic efforts?

Mama, hell no. My ladies learn how to think like women who succeed on this journey, and that is why they win. Enrollment in my fearlessly fertile method program for 2020 is open. This program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months to apply for your interview to be part of this revolutionary program.

Go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for your interview session there. My methodology has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, you’ve got a gaping hole in your strategy, love. Let’s fix that shit. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results.

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Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.