EP50 You Better Know The Answer To This Question

Happy 50th episode loves! To celebrate this milestone, we will discuss a deceptively simple question that can change the way you live your fertility journey TODAY. Women who succeed know the answer to this question, intimately. When you answer it, you become part of a tiny percentage of people who can.

Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.

I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the fearlessly fertile podcast, episode 50.

Want success? You better know the answer to this question. Happy 50th episode, my love! Woohoo! We made it! It feels so good, and I am so truly delighted to celebrate 50 episodes of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast with you. It’s so fun for me, and such an incredible honor to be part of your fertility journey.

What I share here on the podcast is real deal insider information. Not just about the mentality that helped me achieve success at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure, but the powerful shifts. That have helped so many of my amazing hell yes ladies from around the world do the same. Now that being said, no two women will have the same exact journey.

What each of us face on this path is as unique as our fingerprints, because of who we are as women living it. Strangely enough, that’s also what makes this journey so intensely beautiful, and why each and every one of you listening has a reason to rejoice. You will find your way. It might not be exactly how I did it, or how the other women you’ve heard on this podcast did it, but when your mind is strong and you think like a success, you will find your way, mama.

This is why what I discovered on my own journey changed my life and why I leap out of bed every morning excited to teach it. By its very design, it honors who you are, not who you think you have to be. It’s all about unleashing your unique excellence on this journey. In a world where there’s so much pressure to be like everyone else, do like everyone else, my fearlessly fertile method is about you doing you, you trusting you, and you having the fucking guts to believe that what’s in your heart is meant for you.

When you bring that mindset to the table with all of the other amazing things you’re doing physically to support your fertility, you empower yourself to live this journey with no regret. Really take that in for a moment. No regret. At the end of the day, that’s something we all fear. The searing pain of looking back on this time in our lives and seeing that we failed to live up to the potential that was there the whole fucking time.

If we just had the guts to say hell yes, instead of continuing to bow down to the stories we tell about time, money, What people will think, how much good we can have in our lives, and what’s meant for us, our lives could be so much different. This is why in last week’s episode on haters, I spent so much time on the monumental self loathing that haters unquestionably writhe in and therefore try to pollute everyone around them with.

Knowing you gave up and chickened out mere inches from the finish line hurts like a motherfucker. It’s a recipe for a lifetime of misery. I want better for you, loves. Choosing a path of fearlessness on this journey isn’t for the faint of heart. It’s for the woman more committed to her vision for her family than her fear.

This is why having this mindset piece of the puzzle is foundational. To success. Most people blow it off as frou frou feel good bullshit, but the women that actually do the work see why it is so instrumental in their results. You’ve heard so many on this podcast, and this year, it’s gonna be no different.

You’re gonna hear loads more. This is why, as part of the 50th episode celebration, I want to pose a question to you. It’s a deceptively simple question, but one that will make all the difference in the world if you take the time to answer it thoughtfully. Answering this question in the way that I invite you to do so will put you in a tiny percentage of people who can actually answer it when asked.

Please don’t let the simplicity of the question fool you. And most importantly, don’t fall for the lies of your saboteurs that may tell you a bunch of bullshit about taking the time to answer it. The saboteur’s job is to keep you stuck. My job is to help you clear the blocks between you and your baby.

In the end, the choice is yours. But I know who the fuck I would listen to. Success? Stuck. Success? Stuck. Kind of a no brainer. Are you ready? Here’s the question. What do you want? What do you really want? Seriously, when was the last time you thought about this carefully? Now, instead of mumbling to yourself, what the fuck is this?

Answer the smarter question. What do you want? You might be thinking, What do you think, baby? Why the hell are you listening to this podcast? If I wasn’t wanting that. Well, I get it. But the woman who thinks like a success on this journey does not suffer from tunnel vision. She understands that, yes, she sure as shit wants a baby, and she wants a fucking full life to go along with it.

Okay, this is what you have to understand about every woman you’ve heard on this podcast Yes, they want their baby. They want their complete family And they understand that isn’t all. They want to bring these babies into happy homes, which means mom is happy, partner is happy, both parents are living with purpose, their relationship isn’t neglected or subordinated to trying to conceive, mom has the self discipline to take time for herself.

Mom knows how to model empowerment to her children. Mom isn’t neglecting a child she has already pining for another. Mom allows herself to not just give, but receive. Mom loves herself enough to do work that makes her heart sing. And when baby does come, her parents aren’t just stuck looking at each other saying, Well, now what?

Right? So, when you know exactly what you want, you build a life, rather than an existence of problem solving. When you know what you want from a global perspective, you make strategic decisions, rather than just putting fires out in your life. When you know what you want and can precisely and concisely articulate that, you get beyond the, the amateurish business of just seeing what’s in front of you.

You can look beyond your own nose, look down the road, be the woman who is leader in her family rather than somebody who’s distracted by every shiny object that comes along the way. You want the best for your family, so you’ve gotta show up. Like the woman who knows what she wants. And you know what’s even better?

Is when you know exactly what you want, you stop spinning in bullshit because decision making becomes way fucking easier. It’s either hell yes or hell no. The equation is super simple. Is this going to help me get what I want, or not? Hell yes, or hell no. You’ve got to demand better for yourself and the family that you want to build and it all begins with knowing what you want.

I’m keeping this super short and sweet, my loves, because I want you to spend the time focusing on answering the question, What do you want? And hey, you know what? If you’re feeling frisky, ask the people around you what they want. You may just be surprised by what you hear. Here’s an exercise to help you take this to the next level.

Answer the question, what do you want? Be specific, be unapologetic. So the first thing is precisely and concisely state what you want. Think smarter than just a baby. Stopping at a baby is lack and scarcity bullshit, because that’s not actually all you want. You want a home for that baby. You want to live in a neighborhood close to good schools, so your child can be educated properly.

You want that baby to be healthy, so that means you want organic, healthy food during your pregnancy. How do you want to go about trying to conceive? Are you open to all options, or are you focused on trying to conceive naturally? Knowing what the fuck you want, particularly in that area, is going to help you stop wasting time on shit that isn’t for you.

And then begin looking at all these other aspects of your life. What do you want when it comes to work? Friends and family. What about your health? You know that you want your health to be strong so you can live a long life with your child. That means taking care of yourself, eating well, exercising. Okay, you also know that you want to be able to model excellence and a powerful mindset to your child because if you have a miracle baby, you sure as fuck aren’t going to pass along fucked up beliefs that have them thinking they can only have so much good in their lives, they’re a fucking miracle after all, right?

Do your own mindset work. So what are the things that you want? You want an awesome family car? You want beautiful clothes? Have no shame! Know what the fuck you want, because when you do, smart women are going to take the action to get those things. And the reality is, is there is no limit to the good that you can have in this life.

So do yourself a favor and be able to answer the question intelligently. What do you want? You better know. If you want to lead your family to success, know the answer to that question. What do you want? Write it out precisely and concisely and this is for you because it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks about that if you’re smart Every move you make will be run through that matrix is what you’re about to do bringing you closer to the things you state that You want people spend way too much time focusing on what they don’t want and end up producing Exactly that because where our attention goes our energy flows Can you see why it’s so important and so much smarter to focus that precise and precious brain power on what you want?

Next, a super ninja move would be, Hey, send me an email with what you want. Tell me what you want. Say, fuck it, Roseanne, I want blank. And make your list. And end it with, I’m not sorry about it either. I’m getting mine. Just another layer of accountability, mamas. And then lastly, text the link to this podcast episode to someone who you think could benefit from it.

Screenshot this episode and put it in your Facebook or Insta story tagging me. My darling women listening to this, my loves, you mommas in the making, success begins with you. If one of those things you want is to start thinking, believing, and taking action like a woman who succeeds on this journey, I am handpicking only a finite number of women to take under my wing this year.

Decide you will be one of them. My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say hell yes to covering their bases. Mind and body. If you want to learn what has helped women around the world beat incredible odds, this is where it’s going to happen.

I work with women who know what they want and execute, not make excuses. If that’s you, to apply for your interview to be part of this program, go to my website www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for your interview with me there. My methodology has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true.

Their results? Speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, you’ve got a gaping hole in your strategy, mama. And let’s fix that shit till next time. Change your mindset. Change your results. Love this episode of The Fearlessly Fertile Podcast. Subscribe now and leave an awesome review.

Remember the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.