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As women on a mission to build the family of our dreams, how do we stay out of the rabbit hole when it seems like there’s doom and gloom all around? There is a simple, but powerful ninja-move that wise and successful women turn to. Interestingly enough, if you give it a chance, it’ll work every time! Be brave. Be bold. Learn the healing power of AWESOME.
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Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.
I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the fearlessly fertile podcast episode 58.
The healing power of awesome. Hey loves, it is so good to be with you again this week. Things are changing and unfolding for us all over the world in so many different, crazy ways. We’re all settling into a new abnormal normal of sorts. When I was thinking to myself about how to continue serving you through this podcast, a lightbulb went off in my head.
It was so unmistakable, so true, and so fearlessly fertile that I just had to share it with you. My baby boy, well, he’s not actually a baby anymore, but you get the picture. Asher is obsessed with all things mechanical. And he is particularly in love with NASA, space shuttles, you name it. He’s 33 months old and can name all of the planets in his cool planet projector that we got him.
It’s really fascinating how quickly this little boy is learning. Well, the other day We were watching a documentary on space exploration and a quote from President Ronald Reagan came up. It was part of an address he gave to the nation after the Challenger disaster, at a time of collective heartbreak in this country, a time when our hopes and dreams for an incredibly diverse groundbreaking shuttle team were crushed in an instant.
And these words really resonated with me. President Reagan said, The future doesn’t belong to the faint hearted. It belongs to the brave. I couldn’t help but think to myself, while what we face today is certainly different, we are still called upon as women with dreams that extend beyond our current circumstances to rise to the occasion, to be brave.
No one promised us that life, this journey, or anything worth having would be easy or predictable. We have a choice. We can lie down and let this shit overrun us, or we can stand up, firm up our stance, and stare this dragon right back in the eye. Sky is Falling Negative Nancy’s would have you believe this is a time to give up, shrink back, cut your losses, tighten your purse strings, cut corners, or lower your expectations.
Fuck that. If current circumstances are teaching us anything, it’s this. Life is precious and heartbreakingly short. You have a mission while you’re on this planet. You know in your soul part of that is to have the family you desire. You can’t afford to back up off this truth. Indeed, the way you are going about that right now might have shifted a bit if your clinic has put your treatments on hold, etc.
But that does not mean you can’t still be cultivating the forward momentum within you so that when the doors open again, you can show up with your party hat and bells on. Maybe it’s time for you to double down on Gus, and when I say Gus, I mean God, Universe, Spirit, and say, look, look, Gus, it’s you and me, let’s do this.
Right? Current circumstances are teaching us that we’ve got to pivot. We’ve got to seek creative solutions and opportunities the faint hearted masses won’t take advantage of. And turn this up, because what I’m about to say could really change your life. It’s the fucking opposite of what the media would have you believe.
And here it is. It’s a little known fact that there were more millionaires made during the Great Depression than any other era of American history, which started years before the stock market crash of 1929. People had to fucking pivot. They had to get creative, innovative, and shut the blinders of what was quote unquote safe and just go for it.
Innovators are willing to go broke when it comes to their vision. How many times did Bill Gates declare bankruptcy? How many times did Elon almost lose it all? How many times did Amelia Earhart get laughed at, Madame Curie, Joyce Meyer, Oprah, Venus, Serena? There’s a long list of people who were willing to go to the mat for what they believed, even in the face of insane odds and virtually nobody believing in them.
I can tell you what smart, brave as fuck women are doing right now, and I can tell you this because I’m privy to quite a few of their lives. They aren’t cowering in the face of a challenge. They are digging their heels into the healing power of awesome. Now, before I teach you what this is, let’s be clear about something.
This isn’t denial about some legit heartbreaking truths. This is an investment in your future, because what goes down must come up. It’s a law of nature. So if you are smart, you leverage that reality fucking now! While everyone else is telling you things are shit, you’ve got to focus on what’s awesome about now.
What’s awesome about right now? This is where you find the healing power of awesome, because there are loads of things that are awesome right now. Think about it. How many of you listening right now were praying for the day when you could work from home? How many of you were pleading with your employer to implement work from home situations at your office but met with rigid, stodgy excuses for why That was highly irregular or impossible.
Now you have undeniable evidence that not only is it possible, but this shit works. How many of you were wishing you had more time? How many of you told yourselves that you would quit spending so much time commuting? How many of you wished you had more time for yourself? And those of you who are essential workers, I’m sending you a whole bunch of love right now as I’m married to one as well.
You’re working so hard. You’ve never had a better excuse to focus on self care. We’ve never had more time as a whole to go inward, to be with ourselves in a whole new way. This is big. It’s massive for the human race. Have you seen the satellite footage showing the dramatic decrease in pollution? What’s happening is a massive shift.
Claim you’re part of this, love. Claim this, mama. What is awesome about right now? When everyone is acting like Chicken Little and running to the left, you gotta turn right. Be brave and boldly answer the question. What’s awesome about right now. This is a massive opportunity for you love. Instead of wallowing in what could be darkness and a fucking rabbit hole.
Answer the question. Seize the opportunity. What is awesome about now? And notice. Notice how you feel when you do. This is the healing power of awesome. Notice what changes in your heart. Notice how the tightness goes away. It’s time to really tune in and receive this. This is the healing power Of awesome.
So here’s an exercise to take it to the next level. What is awesome about now make your list right now. If you are in any level of fear, lack, or scarcity drop, whatever you’re fucking doing, get your pajama bottom butt. Cause you know, all of us are on zoom meeting virtually. I know you are all business up top and snuggly jammies on the bottom.
Can’t fool me. I know what you’re up to. Drop whatever you’re doing as long as you’re not driving a car or operating heavy machinery or roller skating on banana peels, which you probably shouldn’t be doing any of those things, but grab a piece of paper, something to write with and make your list of at least 20 things that are awesome about now.
Awesome about the truth today. Awesome about what is happening. You’ve got to dig deep and you’ve got to find them because you’re going to see it all over the place. Don’t get mired down in the bullshit that there’s nothing good about. Now people are dying. It’s not about being callous. It’s about remember higher awareness, a higher level of consciousness, smart women, see the whole picture, not just the bullshit you’ve got to be looking above this, what is awesome about now.
And if you want to get extra fancy, my team have put together a beautiful What’s Awesome About Now downloadable journal that you can download and print as our gift. I think it’s really important to have something tangible in your hands to hold and see. So if you want to take this exercise to the next level, reach out to my beloved assistant, Nancy, and politely Ask her for the link and she’ll get it to you.
Politely means please. And thank you. I know it sounds crazy that I even have to say that, but some people just don’t treat my people with respect and I don’t, I’m not, I’m not going for that. So please, if you want this beautiful, what’s awesome about now downloadable journal, reach out to my assistant, Nancy, Nancy at from maybe two baby.
com N A N C Y at from maybe two baby. com. And she will get it to you, print it out, write your list out by hand. This whole process is about slowing your brain down, going old school with you printing and handwriting your list. It’s a totally different experience, so please do it. Take your time, dig deep.
There are mofos all around trying to scare you. I want to help you cultivate a basis for giving all that bullshit the finger. We are not denying what’s going on in the world, but we are also seeing a future that is brighter than this. And that’s what you have to do. You have to keep your eye on the prize.
Okay? So fortune favors the bold and the future belongs to the brave. You can quote me on that. So Nancy at, for maybe to baby. com, she’ll hook you up. Second, take a good long look at your list. Really connect with what you wrote. Put that bitch on your fridge like it’s a prized piece of art. This is a tool to keep you grounded in truth.
The whole truth. Again, not just the shitty stuff. Alright, that’s what smart women do. They look at the whole picture. Third, text the link to this podcast episode to someone who you think could benefit from it. Screenshot the episode and put it in your Facebook or Insta story, tagging me. Love, this is the ninja shit women who beat the odds do.
Okay? They make awesome their new normal. They find the diamonds in the rough. They take up the challenge and they refuse to be a statistic. Unless, of course, that statistic is them being counted as a woman who fucking did it. You’ve got to think, believe, and take action like a woman who succeeds. Not just to get pregnant, but to stay pregnant.
40 weeks is no joke, especially when things are a little uncertain. You’ve got to have your mind and body working together like a well oiled machine to see you through this crazy shit we call life during a pandemic. When everyone else is freaking out, you’ve got to look at this shit and say, Awesome. My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say, Hell yes.
to covering their bases, mind and body. Let’s make your mindset bulletproof. There’s never been a smarter time. Use this time of social distancing to your advantage and let it be the point when you made the pivot that made all the difference on your fertility journey. I work with women who make decisions, not excuses.
If that’s you to apply for your interview for this program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for time with me there. My methodology has helped women around the world make their dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy.
Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.