EP81 The Time To Pivot Is Now

There are approximately 109 days left in 2020. Will YOU use them to your advantage? I’m going to share a crazy simple, but super powerful 2-step process for setting yourself up for success in the last quarter of 2020. It’s been one hell of a year, but you are going to learn how to make that mean something FANTASTIC. Don’t miss this.

Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.

I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, bad assery, and loads of hell. Yes. For your fertility journey, it’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Episode 81.

The time to pivot is now, baby. My loves, I’m so excited to be coming to you this week. I gotta tell ya, I’m super stoked. Not just to be with you, but because This is my favorite time of year. I know that it’s not technically fall yet. I have a couple more weeks before September 22nd rolls around and it’s officially fall in the northern hemisphere.

But I got to tell you, this time of year is super just, I don’t know, like something in me comes alive that I can already smell it. I don’t know if you guys Ever smell the changes in the season, but I do, and it really just excites me. And you know, this time of year is sometimes like if you, if you don’t have your head on straight, it can be the year where you’re like, Oh no, man, I haven’t done the things that I wanted to do yet.

Or, you know, what happened to this year? And you start to get really down, but I do the opposite. And, you know, since 2020 has kind of been a fucking dumpster fire of a year, it might be really tempting to just want to close your eyes, hold your nose and just make it to the end of the year, you know, to be saying shit, December 31st, 2020 can’t get here fast enough.

But I want to propose to you in this week’s work together that you do the exact opposite. Like if this year has been a shit show for you, I really encourage you that actually now is the time to pivot because by the time you’re hearing this episode, I think there will be technically 109 days left in the year.

That’s like just over three months. And, you know, sometimes the biggest changes and the most profound changes we can make can come in like the last quarter of the year, you know, like if you love basketball or any game, sometimes it’s the last few minutes of the game that matter, whether you’re watching football, American football, the Patriots a few years back, like turn shit around and like the last few minutes of the game, it was like seemingly impossible, but Tom Brady pulled it out again.

Yeah. Or if you’ve ever seen the magic of Steph Curry and the Golden State Warriors. Yes, I’m showing my Bay Area bias, but you know, it’s just sometimes some of the most insane victories are pulled out in the very last minutes of the game. And you know, it’s, it would be really easy and short sighted to just write 2020 off, but this is crunch time, my loves with 109 days left in the year.

Approximately. You just never know what’s possible. So I really want to encourage you that now is the time to pivot. Instead of putting your head in the sand, playing the ostrich shit, like, what if you just sat up straight, shook off this crazy 2020, like, shitstorm, and just decided for yourself, fuck yeah!

Things are changing for me. I’m going to use the last quarter of this year, the fourth quarter, you know, how we refer to the fourth quarter of the game, the last few minutes of the game, I am going to use this time wisely instead of feeling sorry for myself. Instead of just repeating what I’ve done all year, I’m going to do something different.

Because you’ve got to know that if you want different results, you have to be different. You have to think different things, and you have to take different action. Now, that’s not to say that there’s anything wrong with what you’re doing. Do not mistake me. Don’t let your saboteur shit all over what I’m saying right now and, and, and seduce you into thinking, Oh Rosanne, are you saying I’m not good enough?

Are you saying I’m not engaged enough in my life? Or whatever. Anthem of mediocrity. Your saboteurs will try to sell you about what I’m saying. But what I really want to encourage you to see, my loves, is you still have time to make an impact on your journey this year. It can, you know, the changes that can be made that can literally shift the trajectory of your journey can be made like that.

Like that. You just have to decide to be the woman that gets that. So, with all of this, you know, fall goodness, this is such a cozy time of year. It’s the perfect time to start really thinking about what is next for you. What is the thing you want in the last minutes of this game, or this year, specifically.

What do you want to create for yourself? What do you want to be able to tell yourself on December 31st, 2020 at 1159, baby, right before we celebrate the new year, what do you want to be able to say to you like quietly as, you know, maybe by that time you might be able to be with friends and family, like, or maybe it’s just going to be you and your partner or you and some friends like you.

What do you want to be able to be quietly saying to yourself, or maybe not so quietly? Maybe what you have in mind is going to have you jumping up and down, clinking a glass of sparkling apple cider because you’re pregnant, not drinking, like, whatever it is. What is it that you want to be able to say to yourself on December 31st?

And when you look back on how you use this 109 days approximately, what do you want to be doing with that time? What do you want to be able to say to yourself? So I’m going to keep this short and sweet this week because the work that you do with this is way more important than me giving you another 15, 000 words on why you should do it.

Just do it. Do this assignment that I’m going to be presenting to you because it truly can make all the difference in the world. Because if you’re going to win in the final minutes of the game, or you’re going to be looking at making massive leaps in the final quarter of this year, it requires you to have a plan.

You can’t just go about this fucking willy nilly. I am doing you a massive solid right now by really encouraging you to get together the ideas and the plans and the things that you want to create for yourself and what you want to be able to say to yourself at the end of the year. So here’s what I want you to do.

Step one. I want you to get out a clean sheet of paper or a page in your journal, and I want you to write what is it that you want to be able to say to yourself on December 31st, 2020 at like 11 59 p. m. What do you want to be able to say to you? As this year closes, are you going to look back on this past 109 days and say, I just fell asleep and I just kept doing what I had always done?

Or do you want to say, holy shit, who did I become? Who was that wild woman? Who was that woman that decided to start saying hell yes. And stop playing small, stop people pleasing and really focus on her. So she could get hers. The choice is yours. So step one, what is it that you want to be able to say to yourself on December 31st, 2020?

The second step is now that we’ve identified what you want to be able to say to yourself, I want you to identify three specific things that you must do in order to be able to say that to yourself on December 31st, 2020. See, this is quite practical as logical and linear. We are beginning with the end in mind, right?

What is the thing you want to be able to say? And then what are the three things you must do in order to get to that place? Now, look at how quickly you have empowered yourself to go from a place of overwhelm to a sense of fucking direction for the last quarter in this year, right? Because typically without knowing what you want to be able to say to yourself on December 31st, 2020, and identifying the three things that’s going to be required in order to be able to say that you would just go through the rest of this quarter kind of willy nilly maybe feeling overwhelmed and maybe feeling hopeless.

But in a very short period of time in this quick episode, you are empowered now with two insanely effective things. What do you want to say? And what are the three things that are required for you to be able to say that? You’ve essentially created the starting point for what needs to happen. In this last quarter of 2020, you have empowered yourself my love to go from overwhelmed into action into a sense of direction and a sense of purpose.

You get to decide what 2020 was about for you instead of joining the sheep and saying this year was, uh, was so terrible, all this other crap you get to decide for you as an individual thinking woman. Who’s smart. You get to say, fuck all of that. All of that may be true, but I’m deciding how I’m going to use the last few minutes of this game.

That’s what women who succeed on this journey do. They may have all kinds of evidence and all kinds of statistics giving them the finger, but they give those statistics and the circumstances the finger back and say, Nope, I’m not leaving without my baby. I am not leaving without my baby. I get to decide how this goes.

I’m going to show up and I ain’t going to give up. So if you want to be that woman. I have just given you two powerful steps to getting there. And if there’s part of you freaking out saying, Oh my gosh, like, how am I gonna do that? Well, you gotta start looking at the way that you’re thinking, my love. The way that you think is gonna be a critical aspect to you getting to where you wanna be on December 31st.

You know what you want to be saying to yourself on December 31st, and you know the top three things that you have to do to get there, but you cannot let your mind get in the way. Because that is what will fuck us over every single time. You’ve got to learn to think, believe, and take action like a woman who succeeds on this journey.

And if you want my help getting there, sister, I would love nothing more. I would love for you to be sending me an email on December 31st, 2020 saying, Girl, you wouldn’t believe what happened. I live for that shit. My ladies have a funny way of making the seemingly impossible possible when they get their mindset on board.

Just imagine where you could be a year from now, my love. Ooh, it just gets me so excited thinking about where you could be. My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say hell yes to covering their bases, mind and body so you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret.

I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this revolutionary program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview with me there. My methodology has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves.

If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, you got a gaping hole in your strategy, my love. Let’s fix that shit by the end of the year and set you up for success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review.

Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.