EP92 Must Do Holiday Homework

This is likely to be the best, most awesome “homework” you’ve ever had to do…like, ever. Learn the Masterful-Mama-Move that will help you draw a line in the sand between lack thinking and the woman you truly desire to be on this journey. Your children and grandchildren will thank you for it!

Transcript:
Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Episode 92, Must Do Holiday Homework. Hey Mama, it is so good to be with you this week, and now that we are knee deep in the holiday season, it is time for us to roll up our sleeves and really focus on how you choose to bring the year to a close.

I have been thinking about this a lot myself and in one of my meditations, the download I am sharing with you this week came through loud and clear. In the past few weeks, we have talked about living your journey. Lux letting yourself break free from the beliefs that keep you starving and depleted on this journey.

Now remember that living Lux is about getting your emotional, spiritual, physical, and intellectual needs. Met on the path to your baby. How have y’all been doing with that? Did you allow yourself to show up that way over the past few weeks? Maybe during the Thanksgiving holiday or as people are starting to ask you about your holiday plans?

Have you been making choices, my loves, that are in alignment with living your journey luxe? Or are you just doing the same old, same old, expecting a different result than getting pissed off at everyone around you, including us, God Universe Source? Not gonna work for you, mama. Not gonna work. And I’m calling you out because I give a shit.

I’m not buzzing in your ear right now to pander to the shit that keeps you small or keeps you stuck in excuses. I want you to wake up to the power that’s in you right now to live your journey in an entirely new way so you can get entirely new results. It’s logical and linear, babe. And I know there’s a part of you that may want to fight me on this, but I know for a fact there is also a wiser part of you that knows this shit’s true.

Time to get back on track in a big way. And this is why I am proposing a very special homework assignment in this episode. Woo, prepare yourself, my love. It’s juicy. Your must do holiday homework. is to start shopping for a truly amazing gift for your self, for your self mama, for yourself. This gift isn’t intended to be some one off indulgence.

I am talking about a gift that represents a line of demarcation between the you that lived in lack and scarcity thinking and the highest version of you. The you that knows that what she desires in her heart is meant for her. The version of you that knows that being a mom is part of her highest calling.

The version of you that invests in yourself. This is a hold nothing back gift, a gift you select with courage, with heart and with a steadfast commitment to you. This is a brave gift. This is a gift that is a celebration of who you choose to become as a result of this journey. being in your life. Listen to the words carefully coming out of my mouth, babe.

This is not an exercise in consumerism. Not at all. This is about honoring, celebrating, and memorializing the truth in your heart. This gift has to mean something. It’s about drawing a line in the sand and never fucking ever looking back. That is what this is about. This is a gift that every time you look at it, think about it, touch it, or see yourself living from the spirit of it, will remind you who you really are.

This gift doesn’t have to be a thing. It can be an experience. It can be you taking a big scary leap. A leap you’ve been longing to take. A leap that represents you making a commitment to never fucking ever going back to sleep in your life. It represents you being awake. Awake, refusing to be sheep herded back into fear that you are just a number, a statistic, or someone that can be bullied into the prison of low vibrational thinking.

Here’s something important to note. The gift itself must represent you getting the hell out of your comfort zone. This homework, if you choose to do it, requires you to go big or go home. If you’re tempted to cut corners or go cheap, just skip this assignment. It’s not for you. If you even catch yourself playing those games, this assignment is definitely not for you.

Because my love, I’m just gonna give it to you straight. If you’re playing games with that nonsense, you are still stuck in the lack and scarcity thinking that is no doubt plaguing your journey, and I love you enough to call it out. Just come back to this when you’re actually ready to commit to yourself.

Hell maybe is for mediocrity for women who are truly committed to beating the odds, mediocrity and holding back and not being all in. That just doesn’t cut it. That shit does not cut it. It doesn’t even come close. So only do this assignment if you’re actually ready to commit to yourself. Now, there may be part of you that has no idea even where to begin with this.

You may be in a place where receiving seems so foreign, or you’ve starved yourself spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, and physically to such a degree that you, your head might explode with the idea of actually giving yourself a truly monumental. Line of demarcation type gift. And so I have some ideas and let me just give you some initial thoughts on how to get started.

But the bottom line here ultimately and always is for you to trust yourself. Remember that you are making an investment in you. So here are some thoughts. Maybe there is a beautiful piece of serious heirloom quality jewelry that you’ve had your eye on for a while that you will pass down to your Children, something that marks the occasion now of who you’ve become and will forever mark that occasion that, you know, maybe there’s some beautiful piece of jewelry that just makes your heart sing that just like just makes your eyes water because you love it so much.

And it’s something that you will be proud to give to your daughter, your son, and they will give that to their children. You know, you want to think big. You want to think beyond what’s just in front of you right now. So that whenever somebody wears or has the honor of holding that piece of jewelry, they will always know the story.

Of who you allowed yourself to become as a result of this journey, you know, so that’s one idea. Maybe you’ve gotten to the point where you’re like, Shit, it’s finally time for me to make an investment in my education on this journey. I want to learn how to think, believe, and take action like a woman who succeeds.

I want to learn all this shit that all the women on this podcast have learned. I want to know what they know. For some of you will be finally getting your ass into my fearlessly fertile method program, the program that’s been helping women change the course of their journey all over the world. And I’m not suggesting this in some self serving way.

The truth is I don’t care how many degrees you have. We don’t know what we don’t know. And they’re very well may be a part of you right now that knows. That the way you are thinking is sabotaging your chances on this journey and it’s time to fucking do something about it. Women’s lives are transformed by this work and I’m telling you this because I did the work too.

And it gave me my life back and there’s no question in my mind that this is why my son finally came to me when he did. What happens when you invest in your education and when you learn to think on this journey is immeasurable. The ripple effect on your family tree is undeniable. When you learn to think differently, you will teach your children and the grandchildren that will come after them to do the same.

Mindset is the gift that keeps on giving, love. Do you think my boy is gonna learn to live in lack, fear, or scarcity? You bet your ass not! I loved him so much that before he got here, I made the investment in me to change me. So I didn’t dare pass that scourge of toxicity onto him, that crazy shit I’ve been carrying for decades.

That’s another possibility or maybe another possibility that’s going to take you outside of your comfort zone is Maybe you choose to furnish your nursery Entirely, I mean entirely babe. No fucking holding back. No shame Just ovaries out making it happen Like, maybe that’s what’s on your heart. Get on your dream, she she, bougie, baby furniture website and take a fucking leap.

I bet there are some of you listening that have had that website opened up on your laptop for a long time. Maybe you’ve even had a bunch of shit in your, your shopping cart and you just haven’t purchased it. Like, what if the line of demarcation for you Between the woman who you have been up to this point, maybe living in lack and scarcity, maybe not believing in yourself, maybe not having any faith.

Maybe the line of demarcation is you finally furnishing that room. And having the ovaries of steel to like, just paint that shit, put that crib in there, put all the toys in there, put in the clothes. And just go for it. And even if people walk by that room and be like, What? You know, what’s, what’s going on in there?

You two don’t have any kids yet. Like, you being willing to be out there so far for your dream that you’re willing to answer that question. And say, oh yeah, fuck yeah, this, I’ve, you know, I’ve spent the last couple weeks Really decorating this room. This, this is ready for my baby. I’m being willing to endure the puzzled looks of friends and family or whomever’s coming into your house.

Like, I’m being willing to just be that, that last woman out on the dance floor, not ashamed, not afraid to really live her dream. You know, maybe that is on your heart. Maybe that’s the thing that’s going to take you into the next level or what is going to help facilitate. You really opening up that part of you that is willing to own and really wrap herself in that flag of knowing that the desire in her heart to be a mom is there because she, it was meant for her shit, right?

Like, can you even imagine that? Can you imagine who you become when you do that? So those are some of my initial ideas and there’s no right or wrong way of doing this assignment. As long as you are going full out and trusting yourself, remember that, that what I was like, if you’re, if you’re even tempted to like cut some coupons or engage in some of that bullshit, like take a step back, not ready for it.

This, this homework is about really making bold moves in the direction of what you truly desire. This is just going to be straight heart based. There’s just what is in your heart. There has never been a more important time for you to take a stand for you. Be creative, my loves, and be brave. And remember, conceiving is all about receiving.

Time for you to receive big because when you receive, you are telling Gus, God, universe source, I trust you to provide. And it’s truly amazing when you let this Lead the way. So here’s the exercise to take this to the next level. I’m breaking it down step by step. So the exercise is get yourself a big, meaningful gift.

Step one is take the next 15 minutes to stop and think about the gift you choose to give yourself to honor and celebrate who you choose to become as a result of this journey. Remember, it can be a thing or experience. There are no rules other than the gift itself must represent you getting out of your comfort zone.

No going cheap, no excuses, no boring bullshit. This gift is about drawing a line in the sand. If you’re not ready to do that, skip it. Oh, and for those of you who probably got yourself something over the past couple weeks, you don’t get to count that gift. This is a gift that you will get from here on out.

It has to start now. You can’t like double count some shit you got on sale like three fucking weeks ago. Conceiving is all about receiving. So there is no limit. Go and allow yourself to receive. The second step is secure the gift for yourself by Christmas. Whether that means ordering it, getting on a waiting list for it, or if you’re trying to get into my Fearlessly Fertile Method program, getting your application in.

That’s December 25th. If you don’t celebrate Christmas, that’s fine. We’re simply using Christmas as a deadline. So get it done, done and done. And finally text the link to this podcast episode to someone you think could benefit from it. Screenshot this episode and put it in your Facebook or Insta story tagging me love.

If you have decided that the gift you desire to give yourself is the gift of learning to think, believe, and take action. Like a woman who succeeds on this journey. My team and I are here for you. You have the power within you right now to clear the blocks between you and your baby. The action you take now can help shape the trajectory of your fertility journey in 2021.

And at the heart of this, my loves, this is about you giving to you. When you become really good at receiving, you become a master at giving. So really give yourself this chance. My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say, Hell yes! To covering their bases, mind and body.

So you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret. You have the power to do something love. You are the common denominator. I work with women who are committed to success to apply for your interview for this revolutionary program. Go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there.

My methodologies help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, my love, you got a gaping hole in your strategy and let’s fix that shit. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast?

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Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.