EP99 Dare to Raise Your Standards

As lovably Type A, high-achieving, goal oriented professionals, we think our standards are pretty high, but are you settling for second best on your fertility journey? Learn how rais-ing your standards doesn’t necessarily mean more work or stress—and how it can bring faster, smarter success…on YOUR terms.

Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, episode 99. Dare to raise your standards on your fertility journey. Hey loves, woo! I am so fucking excited to be here with you this week because this topic is gonna be a doozy. I love keeping shit real with you guys and sharing lessons that were pivotal on my own journey.

The reason why this is so important is to show you what a rich opportunity this journey is. Now, I know some of you may want to throw your device across the room the moment those words I just spoke tickled your tympanic membrane. But I’m not saying this from a goody two shoes smug cause I got my baby place.

I’m sharing this with you from a, look, this is what helped me, and strangely enough, helped my ladies, who apply this shit too, perspective. I show gratitude for my own blessings, By showing the way so listen up buttercups if you want a leg up this week Oh, man, that was kind of lame But anyway, anyway What I’m sharing with you ladies this week is really critical because if you go back because we are on episode 99 Can you believe I’ve got 99 of these out in the world if you go back and listen to every single one of those?

Episodes you are going to hear consistently That what I’m teaching you today, every single one of those Miracle Mamas who overcame insane odds, insane obstacles, and crazy statistics, every single one of them did this thing, okay? They did the thing that I’m going to teach you today. Here’s what you have to understand from the get go.

This journey is a chance for you to finally raise your standards. Standards for the way you think, the way you behave, the way you make decisions, the way you show up in your life, what you eat, how much you sleep, what you say, or what you don’t say, what you expect in your relationships, how you spend your time, the work you do or don’t do, the truth you tell or keep to yourself, the way you invest in yourself and your dreams.

The way you live actually live by your values instead of being a poser with them the Responsibility you take instead of blaming living by the truth in your heart instead of the saboteur stories in your head Making your yeses. Hell yeses and your nose. Hell knows and this is also an opportunity to For you to finally be seen and heard for being exactly who you are, no matter how messy or complicated it may be for other people.

Think about it! At the core of all of this, you are a woman with a desire for one of the most profound experiences anyone can have in this life. Your desire to be a mom. Being a mom. Okay? Is that not worth raising your standards? And I know that some of you might be thinking, What? Ready, type A, control, freaky ass, have super hot, crazy standards.

What the hell are you talking about? So let me address that. Here’s what you need to know about that. Many of us spend decades living by stories and conditioning that we never, ever question. We believe that what we know in our limited life experience today is all there is. As lovably type A control freaky perfectionists, we believe that we have all of our I’s dotted and T’s crossed.

But what we failed to realize because we’re trapped in that very specific mindset, is that we are doing what we’re doing from the narrow confines of patterns that aren’t even ours. They were given to us by our parents, society, religion, friends, etc. Now, that’s not necessarily a bad thing. The people around us are doing the best that they can, but we have to be smarter than just Doing, having, being, or giving what other people tell us to.

If you stay stuck in that place, you’re missing out on the treasure trove of the fullest expression of you and what you uniquely desire. Do you understand what I’m saying? Ladies, ladies, ladies, my darling woman, you gotta raise your standards. You will never get ahead in life or on this journey unless you raise your standards.

It’s a fact. Most people just keep doing the same old thing thinking that one day their ship is going to come in and they will get some lucky break. Ain’t gonna happen! And even if by some stroke of happenstance it does, it will be slow, frustrating, and a painful process. Why settle for that shit? This is one of the primary reasons why women all over the world come to coach with me.

They are raising their standards. They want to think, believe, and take action like a woman who actually succeeds on this journey. They aren’t okay with going about the business of making their dream of a mom come true via a wing and a prayer. They choose to be smarter than that, which brings us to another critical point.

The standards you live by are your choice. They are your choice, mama. Just because mom did it that way, dad did it that way, your best friend from kindergarten did it that way, doesn’t mean you have to. You have something that no other being has. You truly have the intellectual faculties. Of the ability to consciously choose consciously choose what you’re going to be doing and raising your standards isn’t greedy, selfish or diva like behavior.

In fact, it’s a demonstration of commitment to your dream. It’s about commitment to your dream. This is why you hear so many women in my programs and the fearlessly fertile community overcome crazy odds. They’re fucking committed. They might be scared, but they don’t make excuses. They raise their standards.

And here’s the coolest thing ever. Raising your standards doesn’t have to be hard. In fact, once you do, you will wonder why the fuck you waited so long to do it. Raising your standard is like a magnet to miracles. And if you have any questions about that, just go back and listen to every single episode with all of my ladies who have been on this podcast.

And you know what, you’re going to be delighted because they’re going to be so many more. I have a feeling 2021 is going to be a landmark year for my ladies and their babies. So here’s an exercise to take what I’ve taught you to the next level. Raise your standards. Step one, be honest with yourself about where your standards are today.

Are you settling for what you think you can get? Are you tolerating low vibe stories about what you can have? Are there things you want? That you’ve allowed yourself to be hypnotized into believing that you cannot have? Do you use lame, go nowhere, dream stealing, blame shifting excuses like, I can’t afford it, my partner won’t let me.

Or the litany of other excuses that keep you stuck repeating the same old shit that’s keeping your standards and expectations low? Answer that question. Second, pick one standard you will raise Immediately. I mean, immediately, like right now, today and take some action to demonstrate your commitment to that.

For some of you, that will be making the commitment to organic food. Some of you may finally decide to tell your partner what they need to know about you. And for others, it will be making the decision that this year, your mind will work for you by learning how to think, believe, and take action like a woman who succeeds on this journey and apply to be part of my Fearlessly Fertile Method program.

The time is now, mamas, to get on the path to making 2021 fucking amazing. Whatever it is for you, raise your standard and take action. Okay. And third, if you love this podcast and the free content I provide every single week, rain or shine. One of the best ways to show your appreciation is to take a moment right now, and I mean right now, while you are listening, and give this podcast a five star review.

Not only does it make us smile, it helps other women around the world find us. So take two seconds, and do it right now. It’s time to raise your standards, my darlings. Your dream of being a mom is worth it. And if you’re ready to take the leap and use your brain to your advantage, my Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say, hell yes, to covering their bases, mind and body.

So you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret. I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website. www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodologies help women around the world make their mom dreams come true.

They overcome crazy odds. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy. Let’s fix that shit and set you up for outrageous success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast.

Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.