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When it feels like fear has a vice grip on your fertility journey, the idea of being fearless as you live it, can seem like an impossible pipe dream. What if it’s not? Fearlessness is a key secret to success on this journey. Learn what it takes to unleash it in YOU.
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Hey gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset, master, former prosecutor and recovering type a control freak perfectionist.
I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43 despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the. Odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell Yes.
For your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 22, unleashing Your Fearlessness. My darlings, I hope that you loved the past couple weeks is special, extra large additions. of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast. The case studies of Aisha and Jennifer were amazing, weren’t they?
I hope you are starting to see how incredibly powerful you can be on this journey when you take control of what you think and believe. Asha and Jennifer’s stories are proof that when you learn how to yank yourself out of circling the drain of pity partying and living by fear and negativity, you can literally change the trajectory of your fertility journey fast.
This week, I want to quickly build on that topic by helping you examine something very close to my heart, fearlessness. We are going to keep this lean and mean so you can start playing with this idea right away. Because the sooner you bring it to the surface, baby, the sooner you can start shaking things up in the best possible way on your journey.
Just like Aisha and Jennifer. Let’s start by defining what I mean when I say fearless, particularly in this context. For me, fearlessness is a process. It’s an evolution. It’s about having such a deep and abiding conviction And what you desire, that on the path to obtaining or achieving that goal or thing, when faced with circumstances that elicit a fear response, instead of curling up into a ball and waving a white flag, you say, fuck yeah, bring it.
I’m scared shitless, and I’m doing it anyway. Does fearlessness actually mean you never feel fear again? No. The only time you can be 100 percent certain that you will never feel fear again is if you have a lobotomy or die. And let’s be real, neither of those options are particularly awesome when you are on the path to your baby.
Which is why learning to use fear intelligently and make it work for you is a priceless skill on this journey. As you hear that, your saboteur might clap back and say, Well, that doesn’t make any sense, Roseanne. How can you be fearless and have fear? That’s dumb. Here’s how to talk back to that dream stealing fool.
Real life is about the shades of gray. Expecting everything to be black and white is emotionally immature perfectionism. What do we know about perfectionism? It will keep you stuck and reduce you to mediocrity as you sit on the sidelines watching other people who have the guts step in the ring. As I say that, just know that I have images of Russell Crowe from Gladiator and Gerard Butler from the 300 thundering through my mind.
But I digress. My darlings, fear is a part of life. It’s natural. At times, it can be exhilarating, it can be exciting, particularly when you learn how to use it to your advantage. Fear is an amazing teacher if you learn to use it wisely. In fact, being willing to be afraid can give you an unfair advantage on this journey.
Being willing to stand in the fear will empower you to see opportunities most people can’t. When you learn genius strategies for becoming fearless, you in effect neutralize the fear systematically. With practice and commitment, the shit that used to scare you melts away. You move past the myopic lens of fear, and your entire world opens up.
You might even start running around your life, super high vibes, singing crazy songs like I can see clearly now the rain is gone. Hey, don’t worry, I’ll stop so your dogs don’t start barking. But you get the point. Fearlessness is an incontrovertible characteristic of any woman who beats the odds on this journey.
Can’t get around it. Can’t deny it. You heard it in Aisha. You heard it in Jennifer. And you will hear it in every one of the Miracle Mamas I present to you. More committed to their vision than their fear. That is the thing that distinguishes them. They are more committed to their vision than their fear.
Ask anyone, whether they are in my community or otherwise, any woman who has beaten the odds had to be more committed to her vision than her fear. They were scared and fucking did it anyway. They invested the money, they gave the time, they asked the questions, they took the leap, they forged their own path, gathered other opinions, gave naysayers the finger.
They kept going. They followed their heart even when it didn’t make sense, even when it sucked major ass, and yes, when they were scared shitless. Stop arguing in favor of and advocating for your perceived limitations. Stop siding with fear and letting it shut you down. Stop abandoning yourself and abdicating the power that is your fucking birthright.
Does this mean you have to start doing patently idiotic things and engage in objective recklessness or throw out your common sense? Come on. That’s just another tool your saboteur would use to keep unique, mild, small, and boring. In fact, I would argue that being fearless is actually the most practical fucking thing you can do on this journey.
Because look, when all of your fear based notions are failing to put a baby in your arms, Doesn’t it make sense to toss those fuckers out? If fear has not launched you head first into the labor and delivery room, why continue to allow it to be the block between you and your baby? Unleash fearlessness on your fertility journey, love.
What the hell do you have to lose? When it comes to your precious baby, there’s no point in standing like a deer in headlights. You’ve got to keep moving forward. When you cultivate this fearlessness within you, you’ll be able to model this for your children. Fearlessness is all about the long game baby.
So here’s an exercise to take this to the next level. Unleash fearlessness on your fertility journey. Bust out a sheet of paper. I mean it. This is an active exercise. Draw a line down the page so that you have two columns. The first column is for fearlessness celebration. The second is for need more fearlessness.
Now fearless celebration is for you to list instances of fearlessness. Because I’m sure you’ve had them, alright? Don’t overthink this, and just list the times when you, in fact, have been fearless. Because, you know, you might want to say to yourself, Damn, that was a gangster move! Because I am absolutely certain you’ve had those moments.
We all have. In the other column, you’re simply going to list where you need more vitamin F on your journey. And what I want you to think about here is what would be different today if your journey was led by someone who was fearless, meaning you. What would be different about your journey if you approached it from a place of fearlessness?
Women hell bent on success on this journey must be willing to consistently and lovingly ask themselves, what am I not seeing doing or allowing that can literally be blocking my success? Being willing to assess in that way is going to make you an absolute assassin on this journey. Because everything starts with what you believe, love.
If you’re in a place today where you are doing everything you can to get pregnant and you are starting to worry that you are getting in your own way, and most importantly, you are ready to do something about it, let’s chat, my love. My ladies are women who leave no stone unturned, and they are unavailable for looking back on their journey with regret.
They think, believe, and act like women who succeed on this journey, and that is why they win. Enrollment in my all new Fearlessly Fertile Method program is open! This program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months. It’s some of the best work I’ve ever done, and I am so excited to put it out in the world.
To apply for your interview to be part of this revolutionary program, go to my website, www. frommaybetobaby. com and apply for your breakthrough session there. www.FromMaybeToBaby.com to apply for your breakthrough session. My methodology has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true.
This could be the missing piece for you, my darling. www. frommaybetobaby. com to apply for your breakthrough session. Till next time, my sweetness. Change your mindset. Change your results. Love this episode of The Fearlessly Fertile Podcast. Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you.
When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.