This habit will keep you stuck in misery

Do you ever feel like you are stuck in a never ending spiral of agonizing over every detail on your journey?

Sucks doesn’t it?

It will gobble up your days, ruin a perfectly good date night with your partner (if you even do that anymore), it will suck the life out of your friendships, and leave you feeling absolutely helpless.

I don’t miss those days.

In fact, as I write this, I can feel my son kick like an MMA fighter and there is no question in my mind that part of the reason I was able to manifest this miracle baby is because I broke my addiction to this shitty habit.

It is a habit you can easily break if you don’t let lame excuses get in the way.

It can singlehandedly change your life, because I’d be willing to bet a bottle of Williams-Selyem 2014 Bucher Vineyard Pinot Noir, you are not just doing this on your journey– you are probably doing it in just about every other aspect of your life.

And, it is robbing you of precious time you will never, ever get back.

HABIT: Overthinking.

FACT: You will never “out-think” uncertainty.

SOLUTION: Quit over thinking shit and create your own certainty with ACTION.

Am I saying that you should completely give up strategy or critical consideration of next steps on your journey? NO.

I am saying that there is a point of diminishing returns and your once productive thoughts take a tragic detour into: fear, self-loathing, procrastination, helplessness, and analysis paralysis.

Take the leap and ACT. It is HOW you create your own certainty.

Hire the coach.

Invest in the treatment.

Get the second opinion.

Have the massage.

Call the nutritionist.

Say yes to the vacation.

Get off the message boards.

Kick Dr. Google to the curb.

Embrace the risk.

Quit being invisible.

Tell the truth.

Stop hesitating.

Women who break this habit manifest miracles.

They beat the odds.

They become Moms.

I know because I help them do it…just like I did.

Change your mindset, change your results.

Lots of love,



P.S. If you sick of living this way and want my help to not only break the habit, but dramatically reduce your stress and get on with the business of manifesting your miracle, Let’s talk. I am the coach women around the world trust to help them get there.

Intrigued? Here’s an exercise to take this to the next level…

Complete this exercise in 5 minutes or LESS. Set the timer on your phone and GO!!!

Make a list of 5 things you know want to do when it comes to your journey.

List 1 ACTION you can take in furtherance of EACH that you can DO TODAY.

Take the intelligent, inspired ACTION.

If you can’t do it TODAY, schedule it in your calendar for the next 3 days at the latest.

Don’t make excuses. Just do it.

Women who want something bad enough find a way. Am I right?

Excuses are BOR-ING.

Transformation happens in your ACTION. Quit wishing and start doing!

Stretch yourself. Remember, it’s about progress, NOT perfection.

If this exercise has made a difference in your day, leave a comment and tell me about it. xoxoxo