This past weekend my husband and I made one of the biggest decisions we’ve ever made as a couple–we are moving our little family out of California.
Well, we didn’t just make the decision, we put our stake in some new ground, literally.
I wish I could tell you the entire decision making process was smooth, uncomplicated, and stress free, but my pants would be on fire if I did.
There were moments when we could have strangled each other.
But, when we applied one of the most powerful principles we learned during the years on our fertility journey, shit became insanely simple, and we could say HELL YES, with no regret.
When you apply this principle, you can regret-proof any decision you make, on this journey and in your life–which is why I am sharing it!
Values based decisions = zero regret.
Way too often when ego, fear, other people’s judgments, guilt, and the nonsensical bullshit that keeps us small gets in the way, we make decisions that are wild departures from what WE truly value.
That’s when we find ourselves asking, “Why the fuck did I do that????”
When you know what YOU truly value and you make decisions rooted in those values, you gain confidence that no one can give you, but YOU.
There’s no guarantee shit will be “easy” per se, but you sure as hell will have the satisfaction of honoring what you hold most dear.
Trust YOUR values.
Say goodbye to regret.
My ladies regret-proof their journey.
They they make values-based, success oriented decisions that position them to beat the odds…and, they are so good at it! (4 more pregnancies in 4 weeks!)
Decide you will be one of them.
Change your mindset, change your results.
Intrigued? Here’s an exercise to take this to the next level…
Are you making decisions based on your values?
When was the last time you really thought about what YOU value. I’m talking about what you value at your core. What do you as an independent, intelligent, successful woman really value?
Write down 5 of your values. Freedom? Truth? Respect? Courage? Honor? Make sure these are YOUR values, not something someone shoved down your throat.
Are your decisions on this journey in alignment with those values? Be honest! When you make decisions based on your values, the answer to your most pressing questions becomes obvious! You literally stop struggling.
Is it time you started thinking, believing, and therefore taking action like a woman who succeeds on this journey? Mindset is critical baby! Want my help? I’m here. xoxo