The smartest question to ask on your journey

You can transform the trajectory of your journey with one question.

I know that may sound a bit far fetched, but read on and you will understand what I mean.

It’s easy to get sidelined on this journey with questions that drain the life out of you like:

Why me?

When is “it” going to happen?

How much more will I have to spend?

Will I live the rest of my days alone and miserable?

Why can’t I catch a break?

What if___________?

FACT: Not one of these questions will do a thing to close the gap between you and your baby.

FACT: Questions such as these (and their ugly cousins) virtually guarantee you will stress yourself out, circling the drain, trying to answer the unanswerable.

FACT: Focusing on these negativity-laced questions will blind you to the abundant possibilities that exist all around you.

GOLDEN TICKET: Smart women who win on this journey ask better questions.

I respectfully submit that the smartest question you can ask is this:

How CAN I make my dream of being a Mom come true?

It speaks to the bottom line.

It empowers you to zero in on real solutions.

It inspires you to be resourceful and resilient.

It causes you to focus on what you want, NOT on what you DON’T WANT. (The latter being an utter waste of time and energy.)

My ladies commit to asking better questions.

They know that in doing so, they will find the answers that help them manifest miracles.

Decide you will be one of them.

Change your mindset, change your results.

Lots of love,



Intrigued? Here’s an exercise to take this to the next level…

How CAN you make your dream of being a Mom come true?

  1. My husband has a saying that he uses with his team all the time: “I don’t need a thousand reasons why something can’t work. Give me one reason why it CAN.”
  2. Regardless of present circumstances and evidence to the contrary, I want you to ask yourself how you CAN be a Mom.
  3. Toss out the stories, arbitrary judgments, other people’s BS expectations, and anything else that can distract you from the truth in your heart and ask the question. Close your eyes, listen in for the answer. If it helps, journal or make a list. No matter what you do, be open. What are you overlooking? Give yourself permission to have an A-ha moment!
  4. BE the woman who believes in her desires enough to be open to amazing, outside the box possibilities. Miracles are everywhere–you simply have to be willing to see them. How badass is that? Tired of trying to figure this out on your own and want me to help you get there? Apply here.

Transformation happens in your ACTION. Quit wishing and waiting.

Stretch yourself. Remember, it’s about progress, NOT perfection.