Had you asked me 10 years ago if there was such a thing as “trying too hard,” I would have growled, “Fuck no. You could never try too hard,” then promptly returned to gargling glass, or whatever self-imposed fertility torture I was engaging in. Ask me that question today and you will get a dramatically […]
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Happy Sunday! The ubiquitous question we all agonize over on this journey is simple. It’s one word. Four letters. When? It’s the million dollar-ish question. It’s also unanswerable. Un-answerable. Yet we agonize over it. Leave the pondering of the unanswerable to philosophers. Your dreams are too important for that bullshit. Keep moving forward AND allow
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I know I am always in your face about thinking differently on your journey. I do it because I fucking love you. If I can save you a trip to Unnecessary Pain Town, with a nugget of wisdom here and an f-bomb laden missive there, I will. The other day I began wondering however, “Is
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Happy Sunday! Difficult? Impossible? Words. That’s all they are. YOU get to assign their meaning. YOU get to determine their impact. Blocks? Verdicts? A call to arms? As the arbiter of your experience in this life, you have the power to smile in the face of these words or cower. Smiling is like warp speed
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A question I ask myself almost daily is: “What nugget of wisdom would I share with a woman who was struggling on her journey and wanted to do something about it?” I’ve answered that question a thousand different ways, but today’s answer was screamingly LOUD. Be grateful for misery. Misery is a messenger. Misery is
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Happy Sunday! The word “No” is fucking annoying, isn’t it? “Can’t” is even worse. “We’ve run out of options,” can drive you to a state of apoplexy. Each one is like a door, thunderously slamming shut… …with fear, doubt, and anxiety following closely in its wake. Time’s up on that bullshit. Let a closing door
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Over the weekend, while going KonMari on my closet, I stumbled upon a few relics that transported me back to one of the most insane times in my life… Studying for the California Bar exam. 10 weeks. 12-hour study schedule. Countless anxiety dreams. And… …the unforgettable sound of BARBRI Professor Peter Honigsberg tirelessly pleading with
Don’t be a sheep on this journey. Here’s why. Read More »
Who says your fertility journey has to be about austerity, misery, and life sucking major ass until your baby gets here??? More importantly, why would we as smart women, in 2018, buy into this crap? I go into near apoplexy over this topic, because I see otherwise brilliant, resourceful, awesome AF women, bullied into a
TTC and an awesome life? A 3 letter word is the key… Read More »
Happy Sunday! What you want in this life is NOT too much. YOU are not too much. That yearning? That ache? That want? It’s all there, because what you desire was meant for you. Make demands! Take up space! Faithfully Expect! Shine crazy bright gorgeous one. No one else has to “get it.” They will
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I get asked a lot about what makes my ladies so damned successful. The reasons are myriad, yet there is one easily overlooked, often taken for granted, mindset somethin’-somethin’ that gives them a decided advantage. This particular quality comes under relentless attack on this journey, because the temptation to slip into analysis paralysis is ubiquitous.
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