I’m going to love you enough this week to raise a topic bound to ruffle some feathers. It’s GGS. Good. Girl. Syndrome. It’s a creeping, silent, killer of dreams on this journey. What it does to otherwise vibrant, smart AF, ambitious women, makes me want to puke. Fueled by fear, GGS causes us to live […]
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Ever wonder what makes some people so damn successful? One thing is for sure–they don’t go stagnate. They keep learning. They keep growing. They read. (A LOT.) They seek coaching and mentorship. Transforming your mindset (and thereby your results), REQUIRES that you educate yourself beyond your current limitations. Click Here to check out some of
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I get asked A LOT about how my clients and I beat the odds. Years ago, I would give a long winded, lawyer-like answer (old habits die hard) about there being a “confluence of circumstances,” that would come together to make our success inevitable. Now, I am rather direct. While indeed, there are many things
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How many times have you been told, “be realistic?” When discussing your journey with other people, do you say things like, “Well, I have to be realistic,” as you robotically parrot some grim statistic? It’s amazing to me how we are conditioned to live small, dim our light, and make ourselves wrong if we dare
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[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text] One of the lamest things I ever did to myself on this journey was act like I knew it all. Having had my ass kicked so many times, I got pretty self-righteous in my negative, limiting beliefs. If someone offered me a positive notion even remotely outside of the neat and tidy,
Don’t fall for this toxic belief. It almost cost me my son Read More »
I’m not gonna lie, there were times on my journey I was straight up desperate. The kind of desperate where, in a moment of clarity, you catch yourself doing things that cause you to think, “Seriously? Who the hell am I right now,” yet, you go right back to doing whatever crazy shit you were
I was desperate. Here’s what I learned. Read More »
I’m still a little embarrassed to admit this. But, the sting is part of the healing. Prior to this journey, there would have been no factual scenario in which I could have ever imagined myself as a friggin’ doormat. My parents would tell you that from birth I was, shall we say, “willful.” My friends
I was a doormat. Here’s what I learned. Read More »
Quitting is gross. I say that with the authority of a woman who once found herself in a smarmy, daily tango with quitting. I had every reason to quit. My treatments weren’t working. My gluten-free, dairy-free, puritanically clean diet wasn’t doing shit–except piss me off and give me one more thing to obsess about. My
I almost quit. Here’s what I learned. Read More »
Happy Tuesday! Let’s keep it real, I “failed” more times than I was successful on this journey. It sucked. I had never experienced such a ridiculous level of failure in my life and it leveled me. I was elected to the student council in the first grade. I won foot races in middle school. I
I failed 84 times. Here’s what it taught me about uncertainty Read More »
Actually, I invested more than that, I just stopped counting after $100k. You might think that’s an insane amount of money. Or, you might think, “so what?” At the time, I beat myself up with ignorant, short-sighted, down-right stupid statements like, “I’m spending all this money and I have ‘nothing’ to show for it.” Nothing
I spent $100k. Here’s the biggest lesson I learned. Read More »
