Happy Tuesday! Last week, I came face to face with the physical embodiment my WHY–why I left my work as a state prosecutor to help women get pregnant. She came to San Francisco from Kenya. I got to meet this amazing woman in all of her beautiful, pregnant glory. From the moment we began working […]
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I want you to know one thing today. You have quite a reputation. Yeah girl, you’ve got a rep! If you look at the complete picture of your life, you will see it everywhere. It’s why people come to YOU for counsel. It’s why you rock your profession. It’s what got you your degree(s). It’s
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Do you truly, completely, and absolutely trust yourself on this journey? If you had to light the Bat Signal, because the proverbial shit was hitting the fan, would YOU have YOUR BACK? You might say HELL YES from an intellectual and theoretical standpoint, but when the rubber hits the road, do you really? I’m asking,
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Happy Sunday! Not everyone is going to get you. Some may dismiss you as categorically unrealistic. Others might question your approach. Many will ask, “Why don’t you just___________________?” Thanks. No thanks. The only person that has to get you is YOU. Other people’s doubts? That’s their business. Saying your unique HELL YES is yours. People
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How many times in the past week have you beat yourself up with: “Why can’t I just be like everyone else??” It’s a pointless, underhanded question, laden with the worst kind of judgment. At the heart of a question like that, lies a presupposition that we are fucked up, because we are on this journey
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Happy Sunday! Think of 5 truly great women. Women with a vision. Women with passion. Women of principle. Women who continue to say HELL YES when the chips were down. Average, ordinary, or “just like everyone else” isn’t part of their vocabulary, nor is it in their DNA. Unconventional. Inconvenient. Brilliant. Heroine. Their journey didn’t
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Last week I shared how to neutralize your What Ifs like a frickin’ assassin. Now, we are going to engage in some 3-dimensional chess (not really, but kinda) when it comes to taking the next step…using What Ifs to your advantage. To beat What Ifs at their own game and make them submit to YOU,
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Happy Sunday! Negative Nancy. Bitter Bee. Jealous Jane. Victim Vickie The temptation to join that gang of tired bitches is everywhere on this journey. They are the lazy default. The bottom feeding, low hanging fruit. What have they ever really done FOR you? Offered real solutions? Empowered you? Cracked the code to putting a baby
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Isn’t getting caught up in a What-If spiral the worst? As a former prosecutor, with countless complex jury trials under my belt, it became part of my DNA to think 15 steps ahead of my opponent, anticipating and planning for What-Ifs like a mofo. While that made me an assassin in the courtroom, it left
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Happy Sunday! Opportunity is everywhere. It hides in plain sight of difficulty. It’s in the flash of a brilliant idea. It’s the butterflies in the belly excitement of HELL YES. Take the fucking leap. Backing down from your HELL YES may give you the momentary relief of saying, “Whew! I dodged that bullet.” But, did
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