How different would your day be if you dropped your fear habit and simply CHOSE to believe your baby was on the way? Regardless of present circumstances. Regardless of evidence to the contrary. Regardless of whatever has happened in the past. Who would you allow yourself to be? Would you feel alive again? Would your […]
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Do you feel like for every one step forward, you take two steps back when it comes to your mindset on this journey? You get all pumped up for a day or two and feel like you are on top of the world, with all of the hope, peace, calm, and certainty that your dream
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“Stay in your head, you’re dead.”–Tony Robbins I was in a stadium with 10,000 other people, including my beloved husband, after walking over 1200 degree coals, when Tony bellowed those six words at us. Those words took me back to the years I spent on my fertility journey absolutely trapped in my head: Agonizing over
Lead with your heart on this journey. Here’s why. Read More »
Does it sometimes feel like no matter what you do, you and your fertility just can’t seem to get along? Do you wish you were more like BFFs than “frenemies?” When you are struggling to conceive, your relationship with your fertility (which includes all of our girl parts and such ) can get down right
Relationship with your fertility on the rocks? Do this. Read More »
Are you a woman who keeps her word? Who lives with integrity? Who does what she says she is going to do? Who is disgusted by liars and excuse makers? The woman everyone looks to in order to get the job done? If so, gold star for you. I’m proud of you. Now, let’s up
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Do you ever feel like you are stuck in a never ending spiral of agonizing over every detail on your journey? Sucks doesn’t it? It will gobble up your days, ruin a perfectly good date night with your partner (if you even do that anymore), it will suck the life out of your friendships, and
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Do you ever feel like managing your expectations on this journey is a full time job? One minute you allow yourself to get excited about next steps or promising results. The next you tell yourself you shouldn’t get too excited in case you get disappointed? Maybe you use expectations to beat yourself down: “It HAS
Are your expectations reasonable? Here’s a test. Read More »
Would you rather admit to criminal activity than have your friends, family, or co-workers find out you are struggling with fertility? I know that may sound extreme, but for many women it’s not far off. I was one of them! I would have rather admitted to drug use or gun running before letting people know
Shame and isolation getting to you? Read this. Read More »
As I write this, I am looking out onto Kapalua Bay on the island of Maui, where my husband and I have been celebrating our Baby Moon. I have been thinking a lot about what I would share with you this week and the divine inspiration I got was to share one of the most
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Women around the world share with me how exhausted they feel from being pulled in a thousand different directions on this journey. They feel lost in a cacophony of voices telling them to do “this” or “that,” while their own voices are lost in the mix. They end up chasing every shiny object that comes
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